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Dominican women vs puerto rican women for black men
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There are clubs in DR that does not even allow entrance to black people, so what are you saying. Now let me get this straight are you saying, if a man cannot get a regular woman in Dallas he can't get a regular woman in Puerto Plata?
Think about it R Gal there were plenty of men that sang the song" Leaving on a jet plane do know when I'll be back again" and that plane landed in DR. Now these men were wifeless and childless because NO woman in their home country would ever allow them to climb into bed with them. Now explain to me how some of these men have not only a wife,but kids also.
Why do you think there are so many handsome gringos and beautiful gringas roaming that island? I do admire Dominicans and the DR because they give alot of respect to people that were invisible in their homeland.
Dominican women say" Mi Amor"
American women say " My God is that really your face"
my son is married to an italian woman, and she never placed any undue demands upon him to wine and dine her. she realized that he was not a man of wealthy means, and , more often than not, she did the cooking, and they entertained each other in the comfort of his home. i also dated two italians myself, and things were very uneventful insofar as the wining and dining is concerned.
That's because I screwed up the last one when Robert was in town.
Picked a nice spot but didn't bother to call to see if the place had any functions going on.
I didn't, they did, and no one from DR1 got in.
I've hung my head in shame ever since.
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see THIS is the issue.... it is hard to tell the pros from the semi pros...
In this country, most of the women that ANY tourist is going to meet, i e pick up, is going to most likely a semi pro if not fully pro..
Middle class Dominicans do not date tourists.
You need to have an interest.. bird watching, saving Haiti, scuba diving, helping an orphanage, something that is going to put you in touch with the real people with their real lives.
IF the Dominicana, or the Boricua, is out on the beach accepting drinks from tourists, then she will not care about the color of your skin, just the size of your wallet.
On the other hand, if you want educated black women, you should consider going to Haiti, where (I have found) the middle class is much smaller, much better educated, and much more interested in foreigners. Why would you be in Haiti, if you did not want to help?
(full disclosure, I am HERE because I want to help Haiti but am too broke to afford to live there .. plus single older women are usually considered loup garoux.. were wolves.. when something goes wrong.. and I am just TOO OOOOO WHITE!)
That only shows you that not every Dominican woman is on prowl mode. But in Dominican culture it is also frowned upon to see a female accept an invitation from a stranger to sit at his table. This is frowned because in our culture, when a man is wining and dining a female, he expects to get a good homerun on his investment. First base won't do it and when a dominican female pull this first base stunt on a Dominican some dominican guys after getting wined and dined, some dominicans lose it and it is some of these escenarios that contributes to some of the violence against females in DR.
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I'm a black man Im not a prettyboy nor do I look like the bottom of a combat boot but I have gotten love where ever I have been. I have dealt with a drop dead Swedish woman who would rather sit back suck down a brew and watch the game to a highly educated well off woman with a stick up her a@@ who din't mind spending her money on me but was nooooo fun.
So to the OP dont worry about how you will be treated by Dominican or Puerto Rican women there are good n bad one's enjoy yourself .
So to the OP dont worry about how you will be treated by Dominican or Puerto Rican women there are good n bad one's enjoy yourself .
Yeah, If a Dominican woman cares about you, you?ll be able to count on her and her family during rough times. Tha's not rare or extreme!
You have to be prepared for all types of people! I have a friend whose father didn't like her boyfriend because he is black. It was just her dad, the rest of the family was really cool about him.
Well let me clarify.. Your "analysis" is flawed. However I do accept your opinion no matter how wrong it may be. You can't pull random examples out of thin air and paint with a broad stroke about what you think all "middle class" Dominicanas are alike. People tend to look past color and the usual superficial stuff once two people have discovered common interests, likes and qualities. I've met many middle-class Dominicanas. I've never had a problem meeting a middle class dominicana or from all wealth classes and although I'm pr and Ethiopian Im not of the skin color you assume Middle class Dominican women tend to not favor. I guess I am the exception.
Ive never seen this supposed racism but I dont know if you guys are talking about regular women or heiresses. This post went from Is it hard for black guys with Dominican women to are the wealthiest women in the DR all about money?
I would imagine that any of the top familias of the RD would not date or marry anyone not on a social standing with them. So you wouldnt have to be as rich but you would have to be accomplished somehow ie surgeon, architect etc. But that is the same all over the world.
Here are a couple of questions for you guys saying that there is a cieling and Im not saying there is not per se.
Are you chasing women way out of your leauge?
Did you actually try to meet her and set up a date or just pull her out of the club?
women are going to pick up on class identifiers did your parents go to college, are you close with your family etc.. That isnt idle chit chat.
Are you using the Arrogant American Im a tough guy? ? The hardcore ghetto scowl. I see it alot. Some of my friends try it. DEAL KILLER might work in the barrio and ghetto clubs.
Another thing is that women can tell right off if you are middle or upper class. Mannerisms etc. Tone of voice is important.
Just a few things to think about
I would imagine that any of the top familias of the RD would not date or marry anyone not on a social standing with them. So you wouldnt have to be as rich but you would have to be accomplished somehow ie surgeon, architect etc. But that is the same all over the world.
Here are a couple of questions for you guys saying that there is a cieling and Im not saying there is not per se.
Are you chasing women way out of your leauge?
Did you actually try to meet her and set up a date or just pull her out of the club?
women are going to pick up on class identifiers did your parents go to college, are you close with your family etc.. That isnt idle chit chat.
Are you using the Arrogant American Im a tough guy? ? The hardcore ghetto scowl. I see it alot. Some of my friends try it. DEAL KILLER might work in the barrio and ghetto clubs.
Another thing is that women can tell right off if you are middle or upper class. Mannerisms etc. Tone of voice is important.
Just a few things to think about
I have been with ONE, let me write it once more ONE Dominican woman. I have a 9 yrs old daughter with a mexican woman and my daughter in Santo Domingo is now 4 yr old, so tell how was a childless. I met my wife through her cousin which is friend of mine here in Chicago. Her and I were friends for over a year before we became an item. Also I NEVER slept with her during that time ,nor did I care if she had a boyfriend because she did not belong to me. She called me almost everyday after she finished working, and slowly I fell for her.
The last time I dated a Puerto Rican sister I was attending high school, so I do not know where you got that from. I have stated this almost a million times on DR1, JMB773 is not really attracted to Dominican women on the whole, they are beautiful women very beautiful, but they really are not my style. My current girl is from Pakistan and she is divorced with a son close to my 9 yr old in age.
A friend of mined once asked me" it does not bother you that another man may be living with your ex wife, and the money you send her? my response was " children are taken care of by adults if two adults do not see a problem living off another adult who am I to tell them they can't" Some adults enjoy being children and no matter what I do or say will ever change this.
btw Mr DR my wife and time in Santo Domingo was one chapter in my life, it is not JMB773 entire story. I witness alot of men sell their souls, I don't sell mine with them.
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