I was sitting in a restaurant the other day with my daughter and partner, having a generally relaxing afternoon/evening. Without wanting to I was subjected to the overly load drivel being spoken by and overly confident (obviously) sex tourist. The usual situation, single guy with his dominican little backup tigre and back watcher friend there to help him negotiate the local girls and way around the city wthout getting himself into trouble. Rude obnoxious and generally not giving a toss about offending others around him. ?Psssssttt? at every girl walking by, telling of the stories of the 1000pesos girls he had experienced on his stay, seemed quite proud of it.
Anyway, I am not uptight about this kind of thing, but it seems S D is very different when it comes to this kind of thing compared to other areas of the country and being a little descrete is more important IMO.
Anyway, my partner got up to go and buy something of a vendor and I heard the phwooarr and the following comments of what he would like to do to her, I instantly got up and went over to his table, got in his face and told him I would overlook those comments this time, but show some respect, I was here with my family and so were other families. Typical reaction from him, sort of denied it and apologised stumbling on his words and pretty much the reaction you?d expect from a guy who feels the need to tell the entire street about his sexual exploits.
Anyway, I put up with the tigres of the colmados and the passing motorbikes from Dominicans as it seems to be pretty much a cultural norm, and who am I to change that, she accepts it, or ignores it, whatever...
Why would I feel I expect an American to show more respect for me, and not a Dominican? I have confused myself with this as I am unsure if I can be excused for my outburst, maybe it was the commentary or maybe it was that from Dominicans all I ever hear is a whistle, not the indepth ʹll do this and I have done that etcetc.?
Thoughts??
Anyway, I am not uptight about this kind of thing, but it seems S D is very different when it comes to this kind of thing compared to other areas of the country and being a little descrete is more important IMO.
Anyway, my partner got up to go and buy something of a vendor and I heard the phwooarr and the following comments of what he would like to do to her, I instantly got up and went over to his table, got in his face and told him I would overlook those comments this time, but show some respect, I was here with my family and so were other families. Typical reaction from him, sort of denied it and apologised stumbling on his words and pretty much the reaction you?d expect from a guy who feels the need to tell the entire street about his sexual exploits.
Anyway, I put up with the tigres of the colmados and the passing motorbikes from Dominicans as it seems to be pretty much a cultural norm, and who am I to change that, she accepts it, or ignores it, whatever...
Why would I feel I expect an American to show more respect for me, and not a Dominican? I have confused myself with this as I am unsure if I can be excused for my outburst, maybe it was the commentary or maybe it was that from Dominicans all I ever hear is a whistle, not the indepth ʹll do this and I have done that etcetc.?
Thoughts??