Hi everyone,
Its nice to be posting back on DR1.
I have a very general question to ask in regards to dating women. Please keep this thread civil.
I was having a general discussion with my dad about a week ago. We were discussing our relationships and women we dated but it quickly became an argument. He is currently married to a woman from Ghana, West African that is my step-mom. She has given me many headaches in my life as step-moms normally do. She never went to school, and is uneducated but he likes her so that is his business. she has a bad attitude towards her step kids except for when it comes to her kids.
Anyway he was telling me how it would be easier to marry an uneducated women over an educated woman as it makes life easier, they are simpler and do as their told, mold them they way you want them etc etc. and i was telling him how difficult life can be with them. And I sited an example of how when he dated his current wife (what is now my step mom from hell), she was never able to help me with simple things like homework, reading, etc etc. It was at this point that he took what I said as an insult since she can't do any of the above, and because my grandparents were against them getting together from the start. however as much as my father would like to deny this, he married this woman purely on looks. how else does a man meet a woman that already has a child with someone else and she was still with the guy. they met in september 1994, she got pregnant by october, and they got married straight after. Everything happened so fast and his only excuse was he was in his 40's and older at the time. so he knew what he was doing. but i suffered under this woman. he never considered this and its so painful.
Anyway here is my question, is there really anything wrong with dated an woman educated? I mean men choose women for many reasons: Great body, great sex, falling in love etc etc and I respect that everyone has their taste when it comes to women. However in 3rd worlds countries like the dr hoards of women are in fact uneducated, and many times these same ones are more of a headache then they are worth. it might be difficult to find an educated woman that is humble and down to earth, knows how to cook etc etc. On the flip side you probably wouldn't have much in common, you can't have conversations with them about world events, politics and other things.
Its nice to be posting back on DR1.
I have a very general question to ask in regards to dating women. Please keep this thread civil.
I was having a general discussion with my dad about a week ago. We were discussing our relationships and women we dated but it quickly became an argument. He is currently married to a woman from Ghana, West African that is my step-mom. She has given me many headaches in my life as step-moms normally do. She never went to school, and is uneducated but he likes her so that is his business. she has a bad attitude towards her step kids except for when it comes to her kids.
Anyway he was telling me how it would be easier to marry an uneducated women over an educated woman as it makes life easier, they are simpler and do as their told, mold them they way you want them etc etc. and i was telling him how difficult life can be with them. And I sited an example of how when he dated his current wife (what is now my step mom from hell), she was never able to help me with simple things like homework, reading, etc etc. It was at this point that he took what I said as an insult since she can't do any of the above, and because my grandparents were against them getting together from the start. however as much as my father would like to deny this, he married this woman purely on looks. how else does a man meet a woman that already has a child with someone else and she was still with the guy. they met in september 1994, she got pregnant by october, and they got married straight after. Everything happened so fast and his only excuse was he was in his 40's and older at the time. so he knew what he was doing. but i suffered under this woman. he never considered this and its so painful.
Anyway here is my question, is there really anything wrong with dated an woman educated? I mean men choose women for many reasons: Great body, great sex, falling in love etc etc and I respect that everyone has their taste when it comes to women. However in 3rd worlds countries like the dr hoards of women are in fact uneducated, and many times these same ones are more of a headache then they are worth. it might be difficult to find an educated woman that is humble and down to earth, knows how to cook etc etc. On the flip side you probably wouldn't have much in common, you can't have conversations with them about world events, politics and other things.
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