I married / am dating a dominican and it's great!

People tend to feel little need to rant about normal living. I expect there are more success stories than disasters. Try to read the full picture, some things are born to fail, buying love is one of them.

When people are happy they don't have time to be on DR1 complaining

prospero said:

Though I read the forums more than jump into them, I felt this morning the need to write something. There have been soooooo many posts about how horrid it is to marry Dominicans and how they'll take any chance to steal any expat's life's earnings or business or property or honor, that I'm wondering if those who are NOT experiencing this and are instead living happily with their Dominican partner could share and help me make the point that the stereotype is ridiculous, dangerous, and uninformed.
Thank you!

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No more ridiculous, dangerous and uninformed as buying a used car without having it checked out first.

If you use the search function you will see that this has been addressed at least 3-4 times a year. There are dozens of stories. Do we have to do this again??

SHALENA

many successful stories are old. I wonder where some of these people are? Some have gotten beat up or threatened to be killed by their dominican chopo men. One guys refuses to sleep with his vieja after he is in USA. Some have just split up or divorced. Their successful stories are either old or too recent to be called a "success".
Now if you call a security guard or a taxi driver type dominican guy a good catch or some sosua bar girl a good wife material, then I guess you can have success anywhere and with anyone.
AZB

success is overrated. there is nothing funny or interesting in "all is well".

RacerX said:

No more ridiculous, dangerous and uninformed as buying a used car without having it checked out first.

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That only works if you are mechanically inclined. Most people look under the hood like a monkey trying to figure out how to f#ck a football.

If any members want to know whether or not their Dominicanas are worth taking a chance on it might be wise to get a second opinion from someone who is experienced and knows what to look for under the hood.

They can feel free to PM me contact info for their intended and I'll let them know whether it goes "putt-putt" or "vroom-vroom".

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That only works if you are mechanically inclined. Most people look under the hood like a monkey trying to figure out how to f#ck a football.

If any members want to know whether or not their Dominicanas are worth taking a chance on it might be wise to get a second opinion from someone who is experienced and knows what to look for under the hood.

They can feel free to PM me contact info for their intended and I'll let them know whether it goes "putt-putt" or "vroom-vroom".

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Don't keep it a secret man. They say the game is to be sold not to be told. But what if games aren't your thing? You and Hillbilly and other old fogey's who have been there and done that should get together and start a new thread, "This is how you will know it ain't gonna work". Because I m with Shalena there are WAAAY too many guys on here questioning what they should already know. Seriously you don't have to know about every woman under the sun, cultural issues and all but you should know yourself. I mean, if you are 17 ok, you are young and naive, there is a learning curve, but some of these guys(aint gonna say no names) are almost 40 years old and still cant see it.

RacerX said:

Don't keep it a secret man. They say the game is to be sold not to be told. But what if games aren't your thing? You and Hillbilly and other old fogey's who have been there and done that should get together and start a new thread, "This is how you will know it ain't gonna work". Because I m with Shalena there are WAAAY too many guys on here questioning what they should already know. Seriously you don't have to know about every woman under the sun, cultural issues and all but you should know yourself. I mean, if you are 17 ok, you are young and naive, there is a learning curve, but some of these guys(aint gonna say no names) are almost 40 years old and still cant see it.

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Younger than 21 and older than 65 I can understand the mistakes Guys make once with their Dominicana (and Ladies with their Dominicanos)...ONCE! After that all the "lessons learned should kick in and the psyche and libido return to their normal state and life goes on.

People 21-65 who spaz out over confusion concerning LOVE (That 4 letter word, found in the dictionary between LIKE and LUST that takes 5 min. to fall into and 20 min. to fall out of) exist merely for my entertainment as far as I'm concerned. Grownups are supposed to act grown up even when they're having fun. Balance is the only thing that keeps any of us from succumbing to the the trials and tribulations of a normal life and without it no amount of money, success, notoriety or natural talent will get us through our lives.

Look at all the burnouts in sports and entertainment who haven't found balance in their lives. Life rewards their talent and then chews them up and spits them out when they refuse to grow into the new level of responsibility that came with the new level of reward. Something exactly like this happens when regular guys and gals show up in a place where almost all the young people they see are poor and beautiful. The "Big Balla" syndrome kicks in and they go insane with the onrush of new possibilities and the feeling of empowerment that it brings. Fat people feel more slender, short people feel taller, plain people feel beautiful and most dangerous of all....the weak feel strong.

No. We won't be reading any "Dominican Love" success stories here or anywhere else because the people who have achieved success in a balanced and mutually beneficial romance have enough sense to know that the best way to lose something valuable is to let everybody know you've got it.

Successful does not mean your happy with it/in it and happiness does not mean your successful with it/in it. Some of us just care to keep it to ourselves.

Where the hell is Bronxboy when you really need him?!?

SHALENA

Love is Blind

Blimey! Not one answer to the OPs question!

Yes, I consider my relationship with my Dominican missus to be a great success. It took a little while to overcome the social and cultural boundaries, but 95% of our time together is happy.

In fact we're expecting twins next month!!!

I'm afraid you're looking in wrong place for positive comments about Dominicans on this website. Far too many naysayers on this forum! IMHO

SKing said:

Where the hell is Bronxboy when you really need him?!?

SHALENA

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I am here. Never left. lol

I just want to see the comments that are being given. The OP is probably in a relationship or thinking of being in a relationship with a Dominican and wants to hear positive stories. Someone who wants to hear these positive stories is NOT too sure. Second guessing raises flags.

Nothing wrong with that. Time will surely tell. One thing that is a given is that no one is posting positive relationships. That should raise some eyebrows as to why.

They are happy and just dont want to jinxx it lol

Manu

bri777 said:

They are happy and just dont want to jinxx it lol

Manu

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lol

Or too busy getting their groove on.

Bronxboy said:

I am here. Never left. lol

I just wa

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nt to see the comments that are being given. The OP is probably in a relationship or thinking of being in a relationship with a Dominican and wants to hear positive stories. Someone who wants to hear these positive stories is NOT too sure. Second guessing raises flags.

Nothing wrong with that. Time will surely tell. One thing that is a given is that no one is posting positive relationships. That should raise some eyebrows as to why.

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Yes but for the love of all that is holy....there are a several threads of this same kind under SEARCH.
I can tell you exactly what happens.....some one hit wonder gets on here asking about the happy stories, gets enough stories to make her feel good about being with some pobre, leaves DR1 after her one hit (ok, sometimes 2 or 3) threads, shows up again a couple years later as a "Heidi Perez" type whose Dominican is sitting at her computer all day watching porn.
I mean, damn. If you wanna f*ck the guy, f*ck him. If you wanna marry him, marry him. Wanna move him, his mama, and his kids to Canada, then do it. What are a bunch of stories gonna get you? Like I've said before, half of those couples are done. Half of the half that's left are lying. You can be anything you want to be on the internet, if you want people to believe your marriage is happy, then its happy.
Wanna be sure that Dominican is gonna stay with you? I've said it once and I'll say it again. Give me the digits, we'll see how DDD he is. I have 100% confianza in my abilities......
But you're wasting your time looking for happy endings. They are few and far between, and the ones that actually are......are not on here talking about it

SHALENA

P.S. Nothing personal against you Heidi