I posted about this on another thread but I think it probably deserves some discussion here. It was in reply to a woman's comment, so it is about some Gringas exceedingly poor job of choosing the DominicanOs they mix up with...It probably applies also to Gringos messing with the "wrong" DominicanAs.
Falling in love with THE RIGHT kind of Dominican could be a fabulous experience...Unfortunately some Gringas seem to have the ABSOLUTELY WORST POSSIBLE TASTE for Dominican men (yeah, even physically... AWFUL TASTE)....but beauty (or lack of) is not their problem...they seem to be fatally attracted to "low-lives", characters without a steady job (or a menial one), with minimal education, even without a steady home, etc. etc. THEY DO A HORRIBLE JOB OF CHOOSING THE DOMINICANS THEY MIX WITH...
And of course they pay for it...dearly....
Mind you, these are often college-educated women, professionals, who in their own country wouldn't even give the time of day to a man with the same characteristics as the Dominican men they befriend (they'd call them hill billies, uneducated w-trash, and what not... believe me, at home they would NEVER EVER date a man of the "stature" of the Dominican men they befriend).
Eventually they come to a place like this to... bitch about....you guessed it... DOMINICAN MEN....
The problem is NOT Dominican MEN...It is the Dominican men THEY CHOOSE!!!!!!!!!!
If they chose Dominican men with the same criteria they choose men back home, meaning finding men who are actually COMPATIBLE with them, it would be a different story... Some eventually figure it out...some NEVER EVER do...
IT IS THEIR LOUSY TASTE their problem.
Choose Dominicans as you would choose friends back home and you'll be fine...If you don't find them, then keep looking, and live without them while searching.
Falling in love with THE RIGHT kind of Dominican could be a fabulous experience...Unfortunately some Gringas seem to have the ABSOLUTELY WORST POSSIBLE TASTE for Dominican men (yeah, even physically... AWFUL TASTE)....but beauty (or lack of) is not their problem...they seem to be fatally attracted to "low-lives", characters without a steady job (or a menial one), with minimal education, even without a steady home, etc. etc. THEY DO A HORRIBLE JOB OF CHOOSING THE DOMINICANS THEY MIX WITH...
And of course they pay for it...dearly....
Mind you, these are often college-educated women, professionals, who in their own country wouldn't even give the time of day to a man with the same characteristics as the Dominican men they befriend (they'd call them hill billies, uneducated w-trash, and what not... believe me, at home they would NEVER EVER date a man of the "stature" of the Dominican men they befriend).
Eventually they come to a place like this to... bitch about....you guessed it... DOMINICAN MEN....
The problem is NOT Dominican MEN...It is the Dominican men THEY CHOOSE!!!!!!!!!!
If they chose Dominican men with the same criteria they choose men back home, meaning finding men who are actually COMPATIBLE with them, it would be a different story... Some eventually figure it out...some NEVER EVER do...
IT IS THEIR LOUSY TASTE their problem.
Choose Dominicans as you would choose friends back home and you'll be fine...If you don't find them, then keep looking, and live without them while searching.