I realize this may not be a clear cut yes or no answer but am simply seeking a consensus (if possible).
I met a "nice" girl a couple months ago and recently visited her on a subsequent trip. We decided to become a couple and pursue a relationship together. I will also be visiting her during the holidays (at least that is my plan).
Is it normal for a Dominican girlfriend to request money for school and rent? I have visited her apartment and taken her to school on a previous trip. I have no concern that these are actual expenses. My question is more in a cultural context, as this is something that I would not consider in the states (I realize I'm no longer in Kansas, so to speak).
When I met her she had a job (where we met at Plaza International), but has since been let go. I previously asked her how she pays bills and her response was "she borrows from family". She appears educated and is currently studying French and English.
Up to now she has never asked me for money (3 months) and I am more comfortable giving gifts as a show of affection. That said, I do not want to let go of a nice girl over the issue of money, unless this is something inappropriate or a reflection of poor character.
Your advice is appreciated.
I met a "nice" girl a couple months ago and recently visited her on a subsequent trip. We decided to become a couple and pursue a relationship together. I will also be visiting her during the holidays (at least that is my plan).
Is it normal for a Dominican girlfriend to request money for school and rent? I have visited her apartment and taken her to school on a previous trip. I have no concern that these are actual expenses. My question is more in a cultural context, as this is something that I would not consider in the states (I realize I'm no longer in Kansas, so to speak).
When I met her she had a job (where we met at Plaza International), but has since been let go. I previously asked her how she pays bills and her response was "she borrows from family". She appears educated and is currently studying French and English.
Up to now she has never asked me for money (3 months) and I am more comfortable giving gifts as a show of affection. That said, I do not want to let go of a nice girl over the issue of money, unless this is something inappropriate or a reflection of poor character.
Your advice is appreciated.