I have a one bedroom Condo near Fruisa, travel about 4 times a year to it. Usually stay 3 or 4 weeks.. The last two years, I would bring a girlfriend, or someone I was dating, or travel alone.
I met a beautiful young Chica while shopping at PRV. And I was impressed she had a job and a Bank Account (two prerequisites I had read on DR1 years ago).
My Spanish is awful, I haven't put much effort into it. So before we were to go out, we "texto" each other several times. When it was time to meet she text me, "La Bomba". I think what is that? "The Pump". She said meet me at the Pump.. I thought it was really funny, couldnt stop laughing at the time. She didn't say "meet me at the Texico Gas Station in Fruisa".. So I met her at "The Pump" and we went out for about a week. She worked 12 hour days, so we would meet around 10 every evening..
I started to have feelings for this young 21 year old really beautiful girl. At the same time I was thinking she is half my age, and I could never have a girlfriend like that back home.. And at the same time thinking, she must see me in a different light, maybe she wants something, but never asked for anything, until it was time for me to leave yesterday. She asked me for $100 dollars so she could go back home to her province, said she needed it. She texto me asking for my answer, I texto her back and said, "NO I cannot do this, and hope she could respect my decision". Unfortunately, I went one texto to many and pointed out to her, I had already spent money with her on dinners and a few small gifts, and it is not proper to ask me for money.. She texto me back saying, "I am not a prostitute and I am sad for your decision". Now she doesn't text me anymore and I guess the one week relationship is over? I think maybe she was insulted I pointed out to her that I had already spent money on her, or maybe she never really had any intention of being with me for any period of time.
Why I liked her so much, she was so affectionate, beautiful, and young, and it was my first Dominican fling.
I did not help their was no way for me to properly gauge her true thoughts, motives, or whatever. It's next to impossible to have a true friendship or relationship if we both cant communicate clearly idioma.
My last texto to her was, " I will bring you some new clothes and clothes for your two year old baby on my next trip" and her very last texto to me was " No thanks she would not accept my gifts".
Now my trip is over and all I have is her photos and a nice memory of a week long fling that ended not so nice. I feel good though with a slight tinge of sadness. At least I found out early.
I met a beautiful young Chica while shopping at PRV. And I was impressed she had a job and a Bank Account (two prerequisites I had read on DR1 years ago).
My Spanish is awful, I haven't put much effort into it. So before we were to go out, we "texto" each other several times. When it was time to meet she text me, "La Bomba". I think what is that? "The Pump". She said meet me at the Pump.. I thought it was really funny, couldnt stop laughing at the time. She didn't say "meet me at the Texico Gas Station in Fruisa".. So I met her at "The Pump" and we went out for about a week. She worked 12 hour days, so we would meet around 10 every evening..
I started to have feelings for this young 21 year old really beautiful girl. At the same time I was thinking she is half my age, and I could never have a girlfriend like that back home.. And at the same time thinking, she must see me in a different light, maybe she wants something, but never asked for anything, until it was time for me to leave yesterday. She asked me for $100 dollars so she could go back home to her province, said she needed it. She texto me asking for my answer, I texto her back and said, "NO I cannot do this, and hope she could respect my decision". Unfortunately, I went one texto to many and pointed out to her, I had already spent money with her on dinners and a few small gifts, and it is not proper to ask me for money.. She texto me back saying, "I am not a prostitute and I am sad for your decision". Now she doesn't text me anymore and I guess the one week relationship is over? I think maybe she was insulted I pointed out to her that I had already spent money on her, or maybe she never really had any intention of being with me for any period of time.
Why I liked her so much, she was so affectionate, beautiful, and young, and it was my first Dominican fling.
I did not help their was no way for me to properly gauge her true thoughts, motives, or whatever. It's next to impossible to have a true friendship or relationship if we both cant communicate clearly idioma.
My last texto to her was, " I will bring you some new clothes and clothes for your two year old baby on my next trip" and her very last texto to me was " No thanks she would not accept my gifts".
Now my trip is over and all I have is her photos and a nice memory of a week long fling that ended not so nice. I feel good though with a slight tinge of sadness. At least I found out early.
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