Hello,
I have a leadership role in a multinational US corporation. I have traveled the globe (35 US States, Europe, China, Latin America and the Caribbean). I have been to DR at least twice a year over the last two years, and a few more times over the last decade. In the last two years, I have seen the same lady every time I visit. We have good chemistry, and I speak a little Spanish (from US elementary school, NY Boricuas & Dominicans, and my visits), but I would not call myself fluent. She does not want to leave the DR (this is no green card seeker). She loves her country and her people. I know she wants another baby. I am not the only man (or woman) in her life. Nevertheless, she lets me try to make a baby every time we meet. We start out with "protection", but we always wind up planting seeds. This is not about sex, but we are both skilled and the chemistry is powerful.
I have no children of my own. I find her to be a fine mother to her children, and very encouraging to other pregnant women we encounter. I believe she wants me to father a child with her as much as I want to father a child with her.
The question is: Is it possible to maintain a long distance parental relationship (I am not leaving the US, nor is she leaving the DR), to give a child the opportunity to be a bilingual dual citizen, and have all the benefits of a US father and a Domincan mother?
I'd like to propose that the child be born in the US (guaranteeing US citizenry), but return to the DR with the mother. I would provide child support (I am not wealthy but $500-$600 per month is very reasonable), and educational expenses (bi-lingual education, of course). I can visit the DR once or twice a year, as I do now, and the child can visit the US as often as desired. When the child reaches the age of consent, they would be free to choose to a life in the US or the DR (or both).
All I expect is DNA testing to verify the child is mine and the expectation of a quality bi-lingual education. What are your thoughts?
Please check the cynicism and snide comments at the door.
I have a leadership role in a multinational US corporation. I have traveled the globe (35 US States, Europe, China, Latin America and the Caribbean). I have been to DR at least twice a year over the last two years, and a few more times over the last decade. In the last two years, I have seen the same lady every time I visit. We have good chemistry, and I speak a little Spanish (from US elementary school, NY Boricuas & Dominicans, and my visits), but I would not call myself fluent. She does not want to leave the DR (this is no green card seeker). She loves her country and her people. I know she wants another baby. I am not the only man (or woman) in her life. Nevertheless, she lets me try to make a baby every time we meet. We start out with "protection", but we always wind up planting seeds. This is not about sex, but we are both skilled and the chemistry is powerful.
I have no children of my own. I find her to be a fine mother to her children, and very encouraging to other pregnant women we encounter. I believe she wants me to father a child with her as much as I want to father a child with her.
The question is: Is it possible to maintain a long distance parental relationship (I am not leaving the US, nor is she leaving the DR), to give a child the opportunity to be a bilingual dual citizen, and have all the benefits of a US father and a Domincan mother?
I'd like to propose that the child be born in the US (guaranteeing US citizenry), but return to the DR with the mother. I would provide child support (I am not wealthy but $500-$600 per month is very reasonable), and educational expenses (bi-lingual education, of course). I can visit the DR once or twice a year, as I do now, and the child can visit the US as often as desired. When the child reaches the age of consent, they would be free to choose to a life in the US or the DR (or both).
All I expect is DNA testing to verify the child is mine and the expectation of a quality bi-lingual education. What are your thoughts?
Please check the cynicism and snide comments at the door.
