Can you be better off with a woman who you know is only with you for $?

Get back on that horse!!! Although I think its better to start fresh with someone that does not know your past. And get a wingman.

Good luck!

i think you will be better off with a prostitute. you gotta pay either way, wife or a ho. only that wives come out way more expensive.

How close is this woman to your x? Wish you'd try another part of the Island far away from your x if you insist on returning here. In case you didn't know girlfriends can cause a lot of problems as well.

oh yeah and what DV8 said!!!!

Good luck

Can nobody set limits here ??

what's the matter with starting off on a declared budget.....
Here... I will give $x a week/month..... plus dinner dates.

Facil..... everybody knows the rules.... sure, dentist bills come, passports need renewing
That's when you become a BIG SHOT and dig a bit deeper.

Always easier when everybody knows the rules ..... just like marriage, an allowance

I have always handled the household that way........ new cars not included b/c I like buying cars and appliances.
Just call me crazy.......

william webster said:

Can nobody set limits here ??

what's the matter with starting off on a declared budget.....
Here... I will give $x a week/month..... plus dinner dates.

Facil..... everybody knows the rules.... sure, dentist bills come, passports need renewing
That's when you become a BIG SHOT and dig a bit deeper.

Always easier when everybody knows the rules ..... just like marriage, an allowance

I have always handled the household that way........ new cars not included b/c I like buying cars and appliances.
Just call me crazy.......

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You sound like my type of man...you available? I can do anything once i get past the taste in my mouth.

Love Frank

can't afford you and that menagerie Frankie G.....

unless we can teach the monkey to play an organ grinder for extra income

Any Major Dude Will tell you my friend any "minor world" that falls apart comes together again.

Steely Dan - Any Major Dude Will Tell You - YouTube

Trainman, I wonder if you have learned from your past DR experiences.

AlterEgo said:

I guess the question on the tip of my tongue is...... If you knew this girl before your wife, why wasn't she good enough for you back then? What has changed?

Have you actually met her in person, or is this an online thing?

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I knew my Wife for 10 years before we got together, sometimes the timing is not right. She and I were always with other people etc...

if that is the case make sure she is a 10 and not just a 7 or an 8, but at the same time i couldn't do it! i couldn't wife that!

there is a difference between being there only because of the money and not being there if there ain't no money.

Trainman,

I think what you need is someone--similar to a big brother--to give you good advice and keep you out of trouble. You need someone who speaks the Dominican language and knows the culture and knows the women here.

I'm not cheap, but i can be bought with food. I can keep you on the right path; I can smell scammers from far away. I speak their language. I know Dominican women better then they know themselves. And I sit at a bar 40 hours a week both kicking the working girls out when they're bad (often) and rewarding them when they're good (seldom). I'm the good cop, bad cop here on the beach with Dominican working girls.

I know most of the cops here in Cabarete, and they know me. I've been working on this beach for 6 years now. They know where i work, and they come by nightly for their free pizzas. This can work to your advantage when you get in trouble with the women and they want to scam you out of your money.

So here' the deal: You buy me food once a week ( I eat a lot), and i'll steer you in the right direction and give you good advice. I got a lot of advice regarding women...most of it useless, some of it priceless. I can tame the Beaver. I've been trapping the Beaver for over 30 year now and have only been bitten twice ( I got the scars to prove it).

I'm a professional. I'm a Beaver whisperer. True story

Frank

I'm with Frank, I think you need someone you trust to be able to look out for you! If I didn't have my wife here I would be a disaster! She went away for a week and I damaged our car for $2000, I can't be left alone!!!

He definitely needs some good, sound advice. He need someone who has been living here a long time and understands the culture and speaks the language. He needs someone who can read the women, whisper to the beaver, and keep everyone honest...or as honest as possible. This is not an island for naive people.

What i'm offering is just some good ole sound advice and 40 years of experience on this island. I've written books about women, and hell, i've got a book coming out next month about women. Ok, it's about drag queens and Lady Boys...but what the hell is the difference?

Frank

Ambien and driving dont mix.

Harleysrock said:

I'm with Frank, I think you need someone you trust to be able to look out for you! If I didn't have my wife here I would be a disaster! She went away for a week and I damaged our car for $2000, I can't be left alone!!!

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Go with the girl you know, starting over with a new here?? Cut your wrist now...better a slow death on your own rather then by somebody else...i've been trying to start over as well spite funds...i been weaning them out over the past 45 days from sites i meet them on..i meet over 20 now and have 2 steady girls, not one has asked for money or anything yet..yet!! So unless you have time on your hands or wish to maybe invest in a detective (seems the only way to see if they are true) go with the girl you know..we always start out as friends in most cases don't we??? Then hopefully your partner becomes your best friend, bam! Marry her...just my 2 cents from your experience as well..lets not do that bs ride again bro!! I know i want no part of that again myself..yes,same as you, not as bad though

anthony