Sorry guys I couldn't resist. Where is the best place to find an honest, sincere, stable, hardworking, faithful, intelligent man in the DR for a meaningful relationship that could possibly lead to marriage. Preferably someone who wants more out of life than a Presidente, a game of Dominoes and doesn't still aspire at age 30 to be the next Pedro Martinez. I've heard that the AI Resorts employ many men who are good dancers and really know how to treat a lady. Should I start my search there..........
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Finding a Man in the DR for Marriage
What do you have to offer?
Gemini:
What do you have to offer to deserve an endangered species such as you have described. Even I could not meet 5(five) of the nine requirements you mentioned. The only one I am pretty sure about is "intelligent", but that is perhaps the reason I stay away from marriage.
Honest: Except for men in the priesthood, and even some doubt can be cast on them, there are no honest men in Dominican Republic. For the last 40 years we have been educated in the school of corruption. Honesty won't get you anywhere.
Sincere:Hipolito Mejia, our President claims he is a man of his word. He says he is not going for reelection. Yet his entire cabinet, his party(PPH) and friends are all campaigning for the Presidency for 2004-2008. 99.9% of Dominican men are Mejia clones. They say one thing and mean another.
Stable:The closest thing to stability in Dominican men are horse stables.
Hardworking:The few that are working have no choice. They were born to be slaves anyway. Most work to buy rum and beer.
Faithful:We are faithful to our wives as long as they let us have extramarital affairs.
Marriage:Temporary state of affairs that fails 50% of the time and that makes the successful other 50% very unhappy. It will also cost you 50% of your assets somewhere along the line.
Cerveza Presidente
art of the marriage contract in Dominican Republic has a permanent clause allowing for a life endowment for men of this product.
Dominoes:Require for marriage licenses in the Oriental zone and all poor neighborhoods. Upper class men require Golds Gym memberships.
Intelligent:Be aware that Dominican men are intelligent by nature, but 40% of them cannot read, or write, or both. Few are bilingual. The vast minority go to college. 95% drive, or walk thru Winston Churchill and Abraham Lincoln Avenue but do not know who these great foreign leaders were. They don't know that the Malecon was named after First President George Washington, or who he was. Here is how 95% of them would spell these names:
WintonChurchil
wintons Churchis
Abran linco
Abrahan lincon
Abrans lincons(men from Santiago)
gor wasinton
jor wasinsngtons(men from Santiago)
And unless you are looking for a fagot, stay away from dancers.
TW
Gemini:
What do you have to offer to deserve an endangered species such as you have described. Even I could not meet 5(five) of the nine requirements you mentioned. The only one I am pretty sure about is "intelligent", but that is perhaps the reason I stay away from marriage.
Honest: Except for men in the priesthood, and even some doubt can be cast on them, there are no honest men in Dominican Republic. For the last 40 years we have been educated in the school of corruption. Honesty won't get you anywhere.
Sincere:Hipolito Mejia, our President claims he is a man of his word. He says he is not going for reelection. Yet his entire cabinet, his party(PPH) and friends are all campaigning for the Presidency for 2004-2008. 99.9% of Dominican men are Mejia clones. They say one thing and mean another.
Stable:The closest thing to stability in Dominican men are horse stables.
Hardworking:The few that are working have no choice. They were born to be slaves anyway. Most work to buy rum and beer.
Faithful:We are faithful to our wives as long as they let us have extramarital affairs.
Marriage:Temporary state of affairs that fails 50% of the time and that makes the successful other 50% very unhappy. It will also cost you 50% of your assets somewhere along the line.
Cerveza Presidente
art of the marriage contract in Dominican Republic has a permanent clause allowing for a life endowment for men of this product.Dominoes:Require for marriage licenses in the Oriental zone and all poor neighborhoods. Upper class men require Golds Gym memberships.
Intelligent:Be aware that Dominican men are intelligent by nature, but 40% of them cannot read, or write, or both. Few are bilingual. The vast minority go to college. 95% drive, or walk thru Winston Churchill and Abraham Lincoln Avenue but do not know who these great foreign leaders were. They don't know that the Malecon was named after First President George Washington, or who he was. Here is how 95% of them would spell these names:
WintonChurchil
wintons Churchis
Abran linco
Abrahan lincon
Abrans lincons(men from Santiago)
gor wasinton
jor wasinsngtons(men from Santiago)
And unless you are looking for a fagot, stay away from dancers.
TW
LOL TW.
Gemini, if GOLO is not the man for you, then who is?
Ok Gemini, can you describe yourself to us please? If you can post a picture of yourself, maybe I can make a few phone calls for you. I see that you are not very selective as you have chosen to start from the hotel dancers. I am sure, your search can stop there because the first man you would dance with, he will convince you that he is the one. When you describe yourself, please don't use the following terminologies:
What women say: What it really means:
Full bodied : a whale
Loving : Desperate
Good listener : extremely stupid / boring
Free spirited : no bra, hair everywhere
Discrete/private : trying to live down the reputation of
a slut.
open minded: frequent illegal drug user
petite : fat
etc etc
Ok I am joking, here is what you do: Don't concentrate on marriage and spend too much time in looking for Mr. Right. let it all come to you at its own pace. Concentrate on the man's character not on his words. See what types of people he associates with. This alone will tell you almost everything you would like to know about him as a person. See if he intellectually compatible with you or not?
Must do your homework before you get involved in marriage business, especially if the male is from a foreign culture.
Don't concentrate on what you want but learn to accept what comes to you.
I remember a note that a wife wrote to her husband on their wedding anniversary: " you are not the man that I had prayed for but you are the answer to my prayers..."
Think about this statement and you would know what I am talking about.
Good luck.
Gemini, if GOLO is not the man for you, then who is?
Ok Gemini, can you describe yourself to us please? If you can post a picture of yourself, maybe I can make a few phone calls for you. I see that you are not very selective as you have chosen to start from the hotel dancers. I am sure, your search can stop there because the first man you would dance with, he will convince you that he is the one. When you describe yourself, please don't use the following terminologies:
What women say: What it really means:
Full bodied : a whale
Loving : Desperate
Good listener : extremely stupid / boring
Free spirited : no bra, hair everywhere
Discrete/private : trying to live down the reputation of
a slut.
open minded: frequent illegal drug user
petite : fat
etc etc
Ok I am joking, here is what you do: Don't concentrate on marriage and spend too much time in looking for Mr. Right. let it all come to you at its own pace. Concentrate on the man's character not on his words. See what types of people he associates with. This alone will tell you almost everything you would like to know about him as a person. See if he intellectually compatible with you or not?
Must do your homework before you get involved in marriage business, especially if the male is from a foreign culture.
Don't concentrate on what you want but learn to accept what comes to you.
I remember a note that a wife wrote to her husband on their wedding anniversary: " you are not the man that I had prayed for but you are the answer to my prayers..."
Think about this statement and you would know what I am talking about.
Good luck.
Rich men "DO" play dominoes!
"TW", You always say that rich dominicans don,t play dominoes.That is because you can,t get into the Santo Domingo Country Club! Just go to the "19th"Hole,of the golf course some Saturday afternoon.Guys who can "Buy&Sell" you AND me,drinking "Presidente" screaming,and playing "DOMINOES!"...."K" Chris;I have been "Cheating" on you! Better turn me loose! To "ALL"(LADIES ONLY) my wife has the "Dominican Rules" in effect.Rule:1,Don,t ask don,t tell! She don,t ask,and I don,t tell! Rule 2:No family,no neighbors,and nobody at work!I can,t have "relations" with any of the "above". This "system has been in use here since 1493!Never been inproved upon,never will!...To all women interested in dominican,and/or "dominicanized"(Foreigners who act like dominicans)men. "How can you tell when a dominican man is lying?"......His lips are moving!! Ladies "Beware!" the traps are "set",the Dominican Republic awaits you! Always remember;Fat men are "Shady" in summer,and "Warm" in winter!!!Criss Colon
"TW", You always say that rich dominicans don,t play dominoes.That is because you can,t get into the Santo Domingo Country Club! Just go to the "19th"Hole,of the golf course some Saturday afternoon.Guys who can "Buy&Sell" you AND me,drinking "Presidente" screaming,and playing "DOMINOES!"...."K" Chris;I have been "Cheating" on you! Better turn me loose! To "ALL"(LADIES ONLY) my wife has the "Dominican Rules" in effect.Rule:1,Don,t ask don,t tell! She don,t ask,and I don,t tell! Rule 2:No family,no neighbors,and nobody at work!I can,t have "relations" with any of the "above". This "system has been in use here since 1493!Never been inproved upon,never will!...To all women interested in dominican,and/or "dominicanized"(Foreigners who act like dominicans)men. "How can you tell when a dominican man is lying?"......His lips are moving!! Ladies "Beware!" the traps are "set",the Dominican Republic awaits you! Always remember;Fat men are "Shady" in summer,and "Warm" in winter!!!Criss Colon
And the winner is
missing_dr
missing_dr is the guy for you. he has been thru so many broads that he knows their every move. he knows when to say what. he always follows the song letters, telling sweet little lies, you always hear what you want to hear.
he never will cheat on you, he just gets distracted. when caught he will not make you feel bad by admitting. he will deny deny and deny untill the liee become truth.
missing_dr takes a shower with presidente. that way you will never have to drink one.
oh and the package is complete. he comes with a jeepeta and a cell phone. and like all dominican men hates to use a condom.
so do we have a date?
missing_dr
missing_dr is the guy for you. he has been thru so many broads that he knows their every move. he knows when to say what. he always follows the song letters, telling sweet little lies, you always hear what you want to hear.
he never will cheat on you, he just gets distracted. when caught he will not make you feel bad by admitting. he will deny deny and deny untill the liee become truth.
missing_dr takes a shower with presidente. that way you will never have to drink one.
oh and the package is complete. he comes with a jeepeta and a cell phone. and like all dominican men hates to use a condom.
so do we have a date?
Dominican Men
Dominican men are too much fun and have too much spice to get serious with. Once you put on that "I want a commitment" thing all the fun goes out the window. So, I would just relax and go with the flow. I have made some observations and have used a couple of techniques that have worked to my advantage. Maybe these will help.
1) So many times ...shall we say anglos play the sincere I want to be with you the rest of your life kind of woman from the beginning.. You must remember that they are used to getting turned down all the time by your dominicana competition. If you meet the dominicano of your dreams give him the illusion that you don't even care about him and that alone will drive him crazy and keep him coming back for more.
2) Availability, the naieve woman is always available. Is this a challenge for the men?..no. They actually love when you say no..since they still have a little of the "conquistador" mentality. Tell them you have other plans or whatever. It is a conquest to get you.. once they sense that you are all goo goo eyed then the challenge is over.
Just a couple of suggestions for women to keep their heads on when first meeting dominicanos. For me they are great fun but I don't look for marriage.
Dominican men are too much fun and have too much spice to get serious with. Once you put on that "I want a commitment" thing all the fun goes out the window. So, I would just relax and go with the flow. I have made some observations and have used a couple of techniques that have worked to my advantage. Maybe these will help.
1) So many times ...shall we say anglos play the sincere I want to be with you the rest of your life kind of woman from the beginning.. You must remember that they are used to getting turned down all the time by your dominicana competition. If you meet the dominicano of your dreams give him the illusion that you don't even care about him and that alone will drive him crazy and keep him coming back for more.
2) Availability, the naieve woman is always available. Is this a challenge for the men?..no. They actually love when you say no..since they still have a little of the "conquistador" mentality. Tell them you have other plans or whatever. It is a conquest to get you.. once they sense that you are all goo goo eyed then the challenge is over.
Just a couple of suggestions for women to keep their heads on when first meeting dominicanos. For me they are great fun but I don't look for marriage.
And Another Thing
What I don't want is a man with ninos, or a sick mother, or a dying grandmother, or a leaky roof, or a broken passola or better yet, no passola and none of that hip hop gangsta way of dressing
Now to answer some of your questions..........
TW - you asked what I have to offer-----I'm Italian.....isn't that enough.......
AZB - I'll post my pic, when you post yours....by the way I loved your comment about answered prayers......how true
Theresa.........your suggestions are right on and could probably apply to all men and women.......you always want what you can't have......until you have it
missing_dr - you are still the front runner mi amor........it's a date
You guys are a riot------this has given me a lot of giggles
What I don't want is a man with ninos, or a sick mother, or a dying grandmother, or a leaky roof, or a broken passola or better yet, no passola and none of that hip hop gangsta way of dressing
Now to answer some of your questions..........
TW - you asked what I have to offer-----I'm Italian.....isn't that enough.......
AZB - I'll post my pic, when you post yours....by the way I loved your comment about answered prayers......how true
Theresa.........your suggestions are right on and could probably apply to all men and women.......you always want what you can't have......until you have it
missing_dr - you are still the front runner mi amor........it's a date
You guys are a riot------this has given me a lot of giggles
Gemini, I am sure you are beautiful but being only Italian doesn't really secure you a winning in the beauty contest. Be aware that you would have to go against the young hot Dominican slim girls with a belly button ring. These girls are not afraid to show their young curves in tight tight pants. These girls are not only painfully attractive, their best asset is that they are actually available and looking for the same man you are after.
So tell me this: are you prepared to go up against a beautiful, slim curvy 18 yrs old with a sweet smile?
You see my point? No wonder Dominican men are so infidel to their wives (or girlfriends) when you have all of those aggressive 18 yrs old throwing themselves at you. How many times can you say no?
Anyway, I think your American passport might get you further than your looks alone.
Good luck.
So tell me this: are you prepared to go up against a beautiful, slim curvy 18 yrs old with a sweet smile?
You see my point? No wonder Dominican men are so infidel to their wives (or girlfriends) when you have all of those aggressive 18 yrs old throwing themselves at you. How many times can you say no?
Anyway, I think your American passport might get you further than your looks alone.
Good luck.
Get off you guys
Did you or did your guys not read what Gemini wrote. I am the fore runner and have a date with her now.
Now here is when I become Dominican once in a while. I see any of your dirt bags writing to her. I will show up drunk at your door step in my jeepeta with my pistola, not to mention my gold chain, bracelet, dark glasses, oh i almost forgot the cheap perfume bottle ooooozing a slimy odor from the jeepeta with tinted glasses and threaten to shoot you while i try to stand straight.
i will say co?o co?o and ....hey wash hapen maan? (scratch my groin) you live my girl alone maan.......(scratch some more...drop the pistola.....pick it up)
hey maan.....wash wrong weeth youuu?.....you want have problemas weeth me?.........iie am your friend maan......she haas a hermana.....como se dice......sister you can meet...........whai don?t we go out weeth her sister you aan me maan?......come on maan...give me a hug maan...we are brothers.......... co?o....este pendejo me quieria quitar la heva.........lo salve...diablo....
Did you or did your guys not read what Gemini wrote. I am the fore runner and have a date with her now.
Now here is when I become Dominican once in a while. I see any of your dirt bags writing to her. I will show up drunk at your door step in my jeepeta with my pistola, not to mention my gold chain, bracelet, dark glasses, oh i almost forgot the cheap perfume bottle ooooozing a slimy odor from the jeepeta with tinted glasses and threaten to shoot you while i try to stand straight.
i will say co?o co?o and ....hey wash hapen maan? (scratch my groin) you live my girl alone maan.......(scratch some more...drop the pistola.....pick it up)
hey maan.....wash wrong weeth youuu?.....you want have problemas weeth me?.........iie am your friend maan......she haas a hermana.....como se dice......sister you can meet...........whai don?t we go out weeth her sister you aan me maan?......come on maan...give me a hug maan...we are brothers.......... co?o....este pendejo me quieria quitar la heva.........lo salve...diablo....