Hi everyone! Before I get to my post I just want to acknowledge that everyone is different, stereotypes are sometimes bull****, and we are all human and I know that going in. This post is more for my own entertainment than anything else.
I have recently broken two personal rules: Never date someone from work and never date someone with a language barrier This is going to be fun.
A week ago I started dating a Dominican man from work. I work in the office and make almost twice as much as he does, which is not much. He has been working there for about 5 months and I have had a mad crush on him since day one. He has only been in America for 6 months. His niece is our foreman's wife. Our foreman is a Mexican national, but very Americanized and I trust him completely. We are friends. He acted as the go-between and asked me out on his behalf. I am 8 years older. I am a white woman. A total towhead blonde, So Cal native. I took one year of Spanish in 1986. He is divorced from a woman who resides in the DR and has children who also live there.
Anyway..... he seems to be completely enamoured with me, tells me so, and is VERY affectionate (no complaints there!!) and we have been 'flirting' across the shop for months. The catch is that I am a completely independent woman. I am educated and I own my own condo and support myself. I have had and greatly enjoyed open relationships, however, in the process discovered that I am a monogamous woman and have decided that I prefer a monogamous, emotionally intelligent man.
I have been reading a lot online about the 'bad' characteristics of the Dominican man and I really don't want to believe this guy is like that, but you just never know. The language barrier really makes me nervous because it?s hard enough to get to know someone and see their behaviors when we speak the same language.
What do you think the chances are that he is genuine in his affections and intentions? I am perfectly capable of keeping it casual and fun, but I worry that he will get hurt or worse?.. possessive and jealous.
Thanks!! - M
I have recently broken two personal rules: Never date someone from work and never date someone with a language barrier This is going to be fun.
A week ago I started dating a Dominican man from work. I work in the office and make almost twice as much as he does, which is not much. He has been working there for about 5 months and I have had a mad crush on him since day one. He has only been in America for 6 months. His niece is our foreman's wife. Our foreman is a Mexican national, but very Americanized and I trust him completely. We are friends. He acted as the go-between and asked me out on his behalf. I am 8 years older. I am a white woman. A total towhead blonde, So Cal native. I took one year of Spanish in 1986. He is divorced from a woman who resides in the DR and has children who also live there.
Anyway..... he seems to be completely enamoured with me, tells me so, and is VERY affectionate (no complaints there!!) and we have been 'flirting' across the shop for months. The catch is that I am a completely independent woman. I am educated and I own my own condo and support myself. I have had and greatly enjoyed open relationships, however, in the process discovered that I am a monogamous woman and have decided that I prefer a monogamous, emotionally intelligent man.
I have been reading a lot online about the 'bad' characteristics of the Dominican man and I really don't want to believe this guy is like that, but you just never know. The language barrier really makes me nervous because it?s hard enough to get to know someone and see their behaviors when we speak the same language.
What do you think the chances are that he is genuine in his affections and intentions? I am perfectly capable of keeping it casual and fun, but I worry that he will get hurt or worse?.. possessive and jealous.
Thanks!! - M