Hello girls. I have noticed that many girls from all over the world seem to fall for us Dominican men. Those of you that come to this board to get advice, end up getting abuse and ridicule by the regulars. Ladies, I feel your pain, and as a Dominican, I want to give you some useful tips on how to have a happy relationship with a one of us. I see most people here say "don't do it", "dominicans are all dogs", "he's playing with you" blah blah blah, but that doesnt help because although there might be some truth to those generalizations, you gals will not listen to that. I know you don't wanna hear that even if it's true, and you will keep on falling in love with dominicanos no matter what they say. So, the best thing you can do is behave like a dominican girl if you wanna be happy with a dominican man.
Rule # 1
Dominican girls don't mind us "cheating" on them so much as long as they get their "respect". What I mean by this is that our girls are raised to tolerate our love for many women. They are thaught that if they have a relationship, and the man has other girls on the side, it is ok as long as they are the "main girl/wife." Unlike other countries where the mistress can become more important than the wife, our wives are still "la senora de la casa" and the mistress is just the low life slut.
Rule # 2
We are raised to be mujeriegos. We are encouraged to chase girls since we are little boys, so it's part of our culture to like girls more than anything else. I remember that I was kind of shy when I was growing up, and sometimes I would get a lot of pressure from my grandfather and older brothers to "go talk to the girls".
Sometimes I would get intimidated and they would even hit me because "the neighbors' daughters were so beautifull and I was being too slow to talk to them" so they'd get mad at me.
Rule # 3
You never want to "give it up so easily". That is ok for "cueros" and swingers, but if you wanna be taken serously by a dominican guy, you might wanna make him wait a little, but don't over do it because we get tired of waiting and loose our patience.
Ok, I hope this helps. There are some other things you can do, but you need to talk to some dominican girls and they will steer you in the right direction. By the way, dr girls are very reluctant to give money to a guy, even if they have it. In summary, you girls have to leave your gringo mentality at home. If you wanna be happy, you have to accept that we have big hearts and can love many girls at the same time, and be charming and fair to all. Take it how it is and just be happy. You can find some decent dominicans that will turn out to be faithfull, but is is very unlikely in a resort or touristic centers. However, I 've realized that girls seem to like "bad boys" better because I know that we have the worst womanizer reputation in the world, yet you girls from all over the world keep on falling for us everyday. Ain't that cool?
Rule # 1
Dominican girls don't mind us "cheating" on them so much as long as they get their "respect". What I mean by this is that our girls are raised to tolerate our love for many women. They are thaught that if they have a relationship, and the man has other girls on the side, it is ok as long as they are the "main girl/wife." Unlike other countries where the mistress can become more important than the wife, our wives are still "la senora de la casa" and the mistress is just the low life slut.
Rule # 2
We are raised to be mujeriegos. We are encouraged to chase girls since we are little boys, so it's part of our culture to like girls more than anything else. I remember that I was kind of shy when I was growing up, and sometimes I would get a lot of pressure from my grandfather and older brothers to "go talk to the girls".
Sometimes I would get intimidated and they would even hit me because "the neighbors' daughters were so beautifull and I was being too slow to talk to them" so they'd get mad at me.
Rule # 3
You never want to "give it up so easily". That is ok for "cueros" and swingers, but if you wanna be taken serously by a dominican guy, you might wanna make him wait a little, but don't over do it because we get tired of waiting and loose our patience.
Ok, I hope this helps. There are some other things you can do, but you need to talk to some dominican girls and they will steer you in the right direction. By the way, dr girls are very reluctant to give money to a guy, even if they have it. In summary, you girls have to leave your gringo mentality at home. If you wanna be happy, you have to accept that we have big hearts and can love many girls at the same time, and be charming and fair to all. Take it how it is and just be happy. You can find some decent dominicans that will turn out to be faithfull, but is is very unlikely in a resort or touristic centers. However, I 've realized that girls seem to like "bad boys" better because I know that we have the worst womanizer reputation in the world, yet you girls from all over the world keep on falling for us everyday. Ain't that cool?
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