I thought I would try and start a better discussion than one that sympathizes with prostitutes and those that feel the need to justify their reasons for paying them for their services.
Instead, I thought I would propose this question, do women really want nice/good guys? First off, let's make the distinction between a nice guy and a innocent guy. You can be a nice guy and not be innocent. I wouldn't personally want someone that was innocent, never did anything wrong, didn't have some kind of fire in them, especially when it came to the intimate part of our relationship, but this distinction doesn't seem to matter because it seems to me most girls don't want nice guys, and I just don't get it.
I'm sure all of you at one time or another have another female talk about a guy they're seeing and say "he's too nice". What the hell does that mean? He compliments you? Even when he's upset with you he knows how to talk to you like a human being? He doesn't touch you in any physical way you're not supposed to be touched?
For girls that want bad guys, please define for me what you consider a "bad guy". Please don't tell me its some rastrero that acts all hard and knows how to be "down". Most of that shit is a huge front, plenty of guys walking around "hard" like they've never cried before or some shit. The funniest stuff I hear is girls talking about visiting their guy in jail. What is that about? His cell block # te arrecha? Maybe its the orange jumpsuit? Please, there are plenty of law abiding guys in the world and you want them? Please, come visit me at my job or after my CAP 211 class, don't worry about making a trip to Attica for a conjugal visit.
Anyway, I just don't understand it, avoiding the nice guys and wanting these bad guys ends up in some women being miserable, and alone and complaining they can't find a nice (good) guy.
Doesn't almost everyone have that someone in their life they let go, and wish they had worked things out with them, or wondered how your life would be different if they were still a part of it?
What about people you knew were good for you, but in your mind you thought hmm maybe there's someone out there just a little better, and you ended up messing up your good thing...
you know what they say...
el que embarca mucho, poco aprieta...
Anyway, think about what I'm saying, and let's see if we can have a nice discussion about this. I'm sure most can identify with what I'm talking about. Most of us have had normal relationships that extended beyond just one of us enjoying the other's company because we or they (the other person) were lying on their backs...
Instead, I thought I would propose this question, do women really want nice/good guys? First off, let's make the distinction between a nice guy and a innocent guy. You can be a nice guy and not be innocent. I wouldn't personally want someone that was innocent, never did anything wrong, didn't have some kind of fire in them, especially when it came to the intimate part of our relationship, but this distinction doesn't seem to matter because it seems to me most girls don't want nice guys, and I just don't get it.
I'm sure all of you at one time or another have another female talk about a guy they're seeing and say "he's too nice". What the hell does that mean? He compliments you? Even when he's upset with you he knows how to talk to you like a human being? He doesn't touch you in any physical way you're not supposed to be touched?
For girls that want bad guys, please define for me what you consider a "bad guy". Please don't tell me its some rastrero that acts all hard and knows how to be "down". Most of that shit is a huge front, plenty of guys walking around "hard" like they've never cried before or some shit. The funniest stuff I hear is girls talking about visiting their guy in jail. What is that about? His cell block # te arrecha? Maybe its the orange jumpsuit? Please, there are plenty of law abiding guys in the world and you want them? Please, come visit me at my job or after my CAP 211 class, don't worry about making a trip to Attica for a conjugal visit.
Anyway, I just don't understand it, avoiding the nice guys and wanting these bad guys ends up in some women being miserable, and alone and complaining they can't find a nice (good) guy.
Doesn't almost everyone have that someone in their life they let go, and wish they had worked things out with them, or wondered how your life would be different if they were still a part of it?
What about people you knew were good for you, but in your mind you thought hmm maybe there's someone out there just a little better, and you ended up messing up your good thing...
you know what they say...
el que embarca mucho, poco aprieta...
Anyway, think about what I'm saying, and let's see if we can have a nice discussion about this. I'm sure most can identify with what I'm talking about. Most of us have had normal relationships that extended beyond just one of us enjoying the other's company because we or they (the other person) were lying on their backs...