What women really want
Since my friend started a thread for females only, I thought us males should have a place to ?tell it like it is?. My experience tells me that women never really seem to know what they want. One day they are hot, the next day they are cold, one day they can not get enough sex, the next 3 weeks they forget what sex is. Apparently it is time for us men (the stronger sex) to tell them what they want.
I believe that the quote from Henry Kissinger, the famous Secretary of State, that: "POWER is the ultimate aphrodisiac? sums it all up. Women want a POWERFUL man. Women have been attracted to a certain kind of man for over one million years, and it's not about to change overnight. In a hostile environment where survival was constantly at stake, where a woman needed a man who could hunt, who was brave, who could defend.... what kind of man do you think she would be attracted to? I think that women have an extra gene that tells them they need a powerful man.
Lets face it guys our attraction to women is based on evolution: In a nutshell, her sexy body means healthy child-bearing abilities whether we want children or not. Her body is why we are able to be so powerful, the real hunter, who fights the dragons all day, needs a warm body at night to rejuvenate his powers. This is why we are attracted to her. We real men are NOT attracted to her on a sexual level because we both enjoy English literature, or she is the CEO of some multi-national company. In fact most of us could care less if she a vocabulary beyond, ?yes dear, your right dear, what time would you like dinner my love.? So let me tell you the PRIMARY reason SHE would be attracted to YOU: It would be because you EMANATE MASCULINE POWER through being dominant, confident, and having loads of self-esteem. This is SEXY AS HELL to her. Everything ELSE is HOGWASH. This is why women often love Bad Boys. Bad Boys do whatever they want and fear nothing. And they explain NOTHING. You don't have to be a jerk, but you must be a real MAN. It doesn't cost anything to do this. It's not something that is only available to the rich, or to any other exclusive group.
Mans power comes in many form and was given to him to protect women. A great example of this was demonstrated several months ago when a young Israeli died protecting his girl friend from a knife-wielding Palestinian. The police spokesman said he absorbed the attacker's blows with his body, ultimately collapsing on top of his girlfriend who was unscathed physically. http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/946633/posts. Feminism has made the idea of a man "possessing" a woman distinctly unfashionable but this is exactly what both sexes actually want. It mirrors the sex act. To surrender power for love is feminine. When men try to do it, women lose respect. Women unconsciously seek to be overwhelmed by a man. So when a man puts her on a pedestal (because he wants sex or love) he is defeating himself.
We real men however should never underestimate our women, give them some power and watch what happens. Relinquishing our power will only bring disaster. If you don?t believe so just look at these examples:
1.Women think on an emotional basis rather than a logical basis; that is why they are bad decision makers yet they want to make multimillion dollar decisions in the corporate structure.
2.They are insanely jealous and suspicious of all men.
3.Women are very good at messing with guys' brains. Have you ever heard of a woman killing herself over a man? Women are natural psychologists and know every button to press to ruin a man's self esteem, ego, career and wallet.
4.Women are built with an especially attractive body; not only to men but to women. "I'd rather look at a naked woman than a man. I'm not a lesbian, but their form is so much more beautiful...A guy is just a dude with a boner."--- A quote I have heard from several females
5.Colors actually mean something to women; their whole personality will change depending on the dress they're wearing or the color of room they're in.
6.Women hate Pornography, yet are unwilling to find out why it turns so many men on.
In summation, do we need to be bad boys? I think not. Do we need to relinquish any power? I think not!!!!!!!!!!!!
Charlie
Since my friend started a thread for females only, I thought us males should have a place to ?tell it like it is?. My experience tells me that women never really seem to know what they want. One day they are hot, the next day they are cold, one day they can not get enough sex, the next 3 weeks they forget what sex is. Apparently it is time for us men (the stronger sex) to tell them what they want.
I believe that the quote from Henry Kissinger, the famous Secretary of State, that: "POWER is the ultimate aphrodisiac? sums it all up. Women want a POWERFUL man. Women have been attracted to a certain kind of man for over one million years, and it's not about to change overnight. In a hostile environment where survival was constantly at stake, where a woman needed a man who could hunt, who was brave, who could defend.... what kind of man do you think she would be attracted to? I think that women have an extra gene that tells them they need a powerful man.
Lets face it guys our attraction to women is based on evolution: In a nutshell, her sexy body means healthy child-bearing abilities whether we want children or not. Her body is why we are able to be so powerful, the real hunter, who fights the dragons all day, needs a warm body at night to rejuvenate his powers. This is why we are attracted to her. We real men are NOT attracted to her on a sexual level because we both enjoy English literature, or she is the CEO of some multi-national company. In fact most of us could care less if she a vocabulary beyond, ?yes dear, your right dear, what time would you like dinner my love.? So let me tell you the PRIMARY reason SHE would be attracted to YOU: It would be because you EMANATE MASCULINE POWER through being dominant, confident, and having loads of self-esteem. This is SEXY AS HELL to her. Everything ELSE is HOGWASH. This is why women often love Bad Boys. Bad Boys do whatever they want and fear nothing. And they explain NOTHING. You don't have to be a jerk, but you must be a real MAN. It doesn't cost anything to do this. It's not something that is only available to the rich, or to any other exclusive group.
Mans power comes in many form and was given to him to protect women. A great example of this was demonstrated several months ago when a young Israeli died protecting his girl friend from a knife-wielding Palestinian. The police spokesman said he absorbed the attacker's blows with his body, ultimately collapsing on top of his girlfriend who was unscathed physically. http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/946633/posts. Feminism has made the idea of a man "possessing" a woman distinctly unfashionable but this is exactly what both sexes actually want. It mirrors the sex act. To surrender power for love is feminine. When men try to do it, women lose respect. Women unconsciously seek to be overwhelmed by a man. So when a man puts her on a pedestal (because he wants sex or love) he is defeating himself.
We real men however should never underestimate our women, give them some power and watch what happens. Relinquishing our power will only bring disaster. If you don?t believe so just look at these examples:
1.Women think on an emotional basis rather than a logical basis; that is why they are bad decision makers yet they want to make multimillion dollar decisions in the corporate structure.
2.They are insanely jealous and suspicious of all men.
3.Women are very good at messing with guys' brains. Have you ever heard of a woman killing herself over a man? Women are natural psychologists and know every button to press to ruin a man's self esteem, ego, career and wallet.
4.Women are built with an especially attractive body; not only to men but to women. "I'd rather look at a naked woman than a man. I'm not a lesbian, but their form is so much more beautiful...A guy is just a dude with a boner."--- A quote I have heard from several females
5.Colors actually mean something to women; their whole personality will change depending on the dress they're wearing or the color of room they're in.
6.Women hate Pornography, yet are unwilling to find out why it turns so many men on.
In summation, do we need to be bad boys? I think not. Do we need to relinquish any power? I think not!!!!!!!!!!!!
Charlie
