I read the thread about May to December Romance, and I was wondering if the sankies are popular and exist because they can't get a novia till they are old and own house, have money etc. I know that most of them are after money, sex or other things that they wouldn't have in their life if only a rich tourist did not pay or do it for them. But the fact that poor family would like to give in marriage their daughter to a financial independent man who can offer her a better life than she actually lives, then it discriminates the young guys of the same age of the girl. These guys in their early twenties (less or up) are in their full development on sexual plan and on life. They are new to everything and want to experiment the pleasure of life as they are ready to it. They would have seen that in other countries, most couple have roughly the same age, but chances that they can do the same in DR are limited, because first they don't have anything to offer to the girl except love + others little things (which the parents wouldn't agree and may have made it clear to the girl that's not a life she will get in return). Also, they are poor and are just starting to work, building up slowly their life as jobs are hard to find or not well-paid. However, this sexual frustration they feel because of the fact they can't have a novia of their own age and satisfy their needs (enjoying making love I should say) may lead them to making out with tourists who are more open-minded and who, under the influence of the beautiful country, won't care about the financial or age or background of the guys, because what they feel is real love and they will do anything to make it work than a poor young Dominicana would do. So here the safe exit for the sankies, to start a love-relationship sooner than waiting 20-30 years more before they can afford having a novia and release out this terrible big sexual frustration. And a plus is they can leave the country and be out of the poverty but that's a story that everybody knows in this forum so I won't dwell in it (my principal interest is not on that so please don't write too much on it as people here are bored and tired of reading that).
Also, their infidelity induced by the easy access to sex mainly, may be also caused by this sexual frustration in the first place.
So here was my thought upon the subject. Could that sexual frustration is truly present & exist basing on what I said? What do you think about it? I may have written nonsense or nonexisting things due to lack of full knowledge of the Dominican culture, sorry about that (just point me out to it, I would know for the future ), but that's how I am thinking after reading the post mentioned above.
P.S. I am talking more about the poor sankies that seems to make up a big portion of the group. Well maybe I am redundant to say that as they are already poor, but it's just to eliminate other kind of sankies..
Also, their infidelity induced by the easy access to sex mainly, may be also caused by this sexual frustration in the first place.
So here was my thought upon the subject. Could that sexual frustration is truly present & exist basing on what I said? What do you think about it? I may have written nonsense or nonexisting things due to lack of full knowledge of the Dominican culture, sorry about that (just point me out to it, I would know for the future ), but that's how I am thinking after reading the post mentioned above.
P.S. I am talking more about the poor sankies that seems to make up a big portion of the group. Well maybe I am redundant to say that as they are already poor, but it's just to eliminate other kind of sankies..
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