I'd love to see something other than the tourist tours. How do I go about it? We are an extended family of 8 arriving this Thursday. I want to sit in someone's kitchen or yard, drink coffee and have my kids play with their kids. I want to hear about their lives, their jobs, their family. How do I achieve this? Others have made me leary, either that they're looking for something from me or that they think I'm looking at them as an "attraction" to see. I'd love to continue to correspond after we return home. Maybe if our new friends ever visit the US we can return the hospitality. I can get my point across in spanish but am always afraid DR's will make fun of my spanish!