I have been reading your post over the last few days. I fit some of your profiles of a lost cause. I have a K-3 visa in process, for my wife to come over to n.y. ... However , I am having trust issues concerning her . Same routine mentioned in many post here .. She is hanging out a lot with family and friends , always somewhere to go ......I can'nt seem to geet a handle on it at all , because, I get the royal treatment from family and friends...I know where she hangs out , I know all the people and friends...I figured she was tried of being in the house all the time with the kids...and very hot headed over small things ...Will It be differant over here in N.Y. City or do I Keep over there untilI feel more sure. Please be very honest...........