Recently, Berzin wrote in a post titled ?Quest For Love?, ?Pick up a girl, on the beach or at a bar. Check her out. She is looking INCREDIBLY bored. So are her friends. But you make eye contact and a smile snakes across your face and hers too. You of course don't know this but this is her job-sitting around waiting for some fool to take her out.?
He went on to write, ?You notice that she still has that bored, glazed look in her eye. No, you're just another stupid gringo to her. But you don't care because she's driving you wild-beautiful face with a body to match, the thoughts of an incredible evening overcoming your better judgment.?
My question is, what is with this glazed look?
During my 3 weeks in the DR I met around 25 different women and engaged in conversation with all of them. They ranged in age from 17 to 28 years old. As I had my female translator with me, if I got stuck in what I wanted to say, Fran would step in so there was little doubt about what I wanted to convey. I would explain that I have been to the Dominican Republic many times and know most of the country quite well. Explaining that I had just finished my relationship with my novia of two years, I would go on to explain that I was searching for a new girlfriend interested in a long term relationship. I would tell them what they could expect from me, as far as loyalty, financial responsibility, and educational assistance were concerned. I also would explain what I expected of them in return.
These women came from all walks of Dominican life. Some were students, some unemployed, some with good jobs, some with children and some with none, some poor and some were not. One fact held true thought most of these women (60%), that glazed look. From the initial greeting thru quality alone time in the hotel the look was there. Even in moments of what I thought was deepest passion, the look was still evident.
What is it with this look, I am baffled?
Chuckuindy
He went on to write, ?You notice that she still has that bored, glazed look in her eye. No, you're just another stupid gringo to her. But you don't care because she's driving you wild-beautiful face with a body to match, the thoughts of an incredible evening overcoming your better judgment.?
My question is, what is with this glazed look?
During my 3 weeks in the DR I met around 25 different women and engaged in conversation with all of them. They ranged in age from 17 to 28 years old. As I had my female translator with me, if I got stuck in what I wanted to say, Fran would step in so there was little doubt about what I wanted to convey. I would explain that I have been to the Dominican Republic many times and know most of the country quite well. Explaining that I had just finished my relationship with my novia of two years, I would go on to explain that I was searching for a new girlfriend interested in a long term relationship. I would tell them what they could expect from me, as far as loyalty, financial responsibility, and educational assistance were concerned. I also would explain what I expected of them in return.
These women came from all walks of Dominican life. Some were students, some unemployed, some with good jobs, some with children and some with none, some poor and some were not. One fact held true thought most of these women (60%), that glazed look. From the initial greeting thru quality alone time in the hotel the look was there. Even in moments of what I thought was deepest passion, the look was still evident.
What is it with this look, I am baffled?
Chuckuindy
I am glad to know you had a good time... about that glazed look... I noticed it in the fotos... especially Sofie, I thought she was feeling sick... anyway... it can be what Anna says, some girls are more artists than others ya know...