So i guess since im reallllyyyy bored and anna told me i could im going to tell you about me my sankie experience.... well one in particular.... yes there were more then one but thats a long story for another day!
So first ill tell you about myself... im 16 years old and im a pretty normal teenage girl from canada. I make brownies with my friends, go to school dances, go to parties, and make scrapbooks on rainy sunday afternoons. I dont consider myself ugly or fat but hey maybe other people might view me that way who am i to tell them what to think about me!
Before i went to the DR i had no idea about sankies at all. My mom had told me that they like young white girls and to be careful but i figured that i could handle myself seeing as ive never run into problems with boys at home that i could deal with! (big mistake)
So i get down there and i start my vacation off perfectly laughing and smiling at all the staff just being the friendly girl that i always try to be regardless and it didnt take long to notice that i was getting tons of attention from the male staff. (Actually i wasnt even out of the airport when one of the flight attendants who was dominican was like "hello beutiful lady" and i was like wow wierd)
So i had a few random marriage offers from staff and bartenders asking me to be their lady and i polietly declined them understanding that they all just wanted a free trip to canada. Now one day however i was playing volley ball on the beach and this animation staff member starts talking to me. (not the one who was refering to me as Senorita Coca Cola as i posted in another thread) but this guy was way differnt then the other staff and i noticed it right away. He was quiet and more reserved then the others very polite and not all up in your face. I imediatly clicked with him we talked and laughed and he met my parents and they loved him. So one night when i was walkign behind the bar to go to the rest room he met me and was talking to me for a few minutes asked my age and told me his then he said may i kiss you once on the cheek. I thought this was a pretty wierd request since most guys have their tounges down your throught before they ask your name backk home so i said yes and then i continued on with my evening and talked to him a bit here and there.
Then the next day i was watching him swimming while i was laying on the beach and he came over to me and started talking to me and asked where my father was. he seemed scared of my dad and didnt want to get in trouble with him i guess.... I told them that him and my mother went for a walk down the beach to a vendor and he didnt press the matter any further. We talked for a bit and he asked me about a scar on my leg and at this point things were getting alittle closer and im like dude im on a beach with staff and tourists all around like does he not realize that this is not acceptable in public bt he didnt seem to care. And again he asked me if he could kiss me once and i said alright.... after that we continues kissing.... but thats is we macked for a bit and i must say his technique was more refined then the slobbering highschool boys back home.
That night we danced a bit and the show and he talked to my family and stuff and he was pretty awesome about everything. He took me up to the disco and i had had a few drinks and was really giddy and he kept taking my drinks away saying i wasnt allowed to drink to much with him he wouldnt let me sweet guesture i thought most guys would try and get u drunk! so we danced (under the watchfull eye of my 18 year old brother who was there so i didnt have to have my parents around. I guess parents arnt ready to let their 16 year old daughter loose in a foreign country!) so he asked me if i would go for a walk with him since i was going to be leaving very early in the morning and he wanted to say good bye to me so i accepted thinking we'd walk around the resort and what not but he led me to the securty gate and told me wed walk around outside of them wich really wasnt off the resort but i didnt want to leave at all i wanted to stay in a public area!
I stopped him and said no i dont want to go out there can we just talk here and he was like no i want to be alone with you and i was like well we're sorta alone here and i was like no dice... so one of the other animation staff members was walking by and i was pretty good friends with him (nothing more) and he explained to me (he had perfect english) that the other guy wanted to just go for a quick walk so i told him ok 10 minutes thinking that i couldnt get into too much trouble in 10 minutes...
So we didnt go far he was right about that and as soon as we had turned the corner he had my pants undone and was kissing me. (me being stupid was like ok its not gonna go far cause back home guys wont even try to do stuff with u their mostly nervous and arnt hard to stop if they arnt) and soon he had my pants down and had me on the ground and i was like wo no stop right now im not doing this and hes like but i love you and im like "like hell you dont even know me dont say that" and he was like why not and got all upset with me and stuff and i was like i said no and after alot of forcefull no's on my part he was like well i have protection you know condom and im like dude i said no (in my head im thinking what loser keeps condoms in his wallet obviously he was used to getting alot or he was plannign this) so he got really mad at me then and litterly grabbed my head and tried to get me to perform well you can guess the rest.... (sory if this is too detailed im trying to water it down) and i was like no a guy does not do that to me and i stood up and straightened my self out said good bye and walked back to my room (kind of ran actually) and i never looked back once.....
i feel kinda bad about leaving him liek that because i still cant believe what he was like but if i hadntve done what i did i liekly would not have walked away the same as i did. (cathc my drift) well needless to say i learned tons from that experience and im realy sory how long this is! PLEASE everyone spare me the lectures on how i was dumb and deserved it and im just a stupid young blond and all that crap cause i obviously know what could have happened and yeah..... im not looking for sympathy or attention so dont even bother criticizing me for that.... i guess the real reason im writing this is not only have i never told a sole about that incident i also hope that other girls will learn from this i think that if someone hadve told me a story like this before i left i might have been a bit wiser..... well thats my story and hope u didnt get tooooo bored!!!
Thanks
KC
*sits and patiently waits the rude remarks to fallow*
So first ill tell you about myself... im 16 years old and im a pretty normal teenage girl from canada. I make brownies with my friends, go to school dances, go to parties, and make scrapbooks on rainy sunday afternoons. I dont consider myself ugly or fat but hey maybe other people might view me that way who am i to tell them what to think about me!
Before i went to the DR i had no idea about sankies at all. My mom had told me that they like young white girls and to be careful but i figured that i could handle myself seeing as ive never run into problems with boys at home that i could deal with! (big mistake)
So i get down there and i start my vacation off perfectly laughing and smiling at all the staff just being the friendly girl that i always try to be regardless and it didnt take long to notice that i was getting tons of attention from the male staff. (Actually i wasnt even out of the airport when one of the flight attendants who was dominican was like "hello beutiful lady" and i was like wow wierd)
So i had a few random marriage offers from staff and bartenders asking me to be their lady and i polietly declined them understanding that they all just wanted a free trip to canada. Now one day however i was playing volley ball on the beach and this animation staff member starts talking to me. (not the one who was refering to me as Senorita Coca Cola as i posted in another thread) but this guy was way differnt then the other staff and i noticed it right away. He was quiet and more reserved then the others very polite and not all up in your face. I imediatly clicked with him we talked and laughed and he met my parents and they loved him. So one night when i was walkign behind the bar to go to the rest room he met me and was talking to me for a few minutes asked my age and told me his then he said may i kiss you once on the cheek. I thought this was a pretty wierd request since most guys have their tounges down your throught before they ask your name backk home so i said yes and then i continued on with my evening and talked to him a bit here and there.
Then the next day i was watching him swimming while i was laying on the beach and he came over to me and started talking to me and asked where my father was. he seemed scared of my dad and didnt want to get in trouble with him i guess.... I told them that him and my mother went for a walk down the beach to a vendor and he didnt press the matter any further. We talked for a bit and he asked me about a scar on my leg and at this point things were getting alittle closer and im like dude im on a beach with staff and tourists all around like does he not realize that this is not acceptable in public bt he didnt seem to care. And again he asked me if he could kiss me once and i said alright.... after that we continues kissing.... but thats is we macked for a bit and i must say his technique was more refined then the slobbering highschool boys back home.
That night we danced a bit and the show and he talked to my family and stuff and he was pretty awesome about everything. He took me up to the disco and i had had a few drinks and was really giddy and he kept taking my drinks away saying i wasnt allowed to drink to much with him he wouldnt let me sweet guesture i thought most guys would try and get u drunk! so we danced (under the watchfull eye of my 18 year old brother who was there so i didnt have to have my parents around. I guess parents arnt ready to let their 16 year old daughter loose in a foreign country!) so he asked me if i would go for a walk with him since i was going to be leaving very early in the morning and he wanted to say good bye to me so i accepted thinking we'd walk around the resort and what not but he led me to the securty gate and told me wed walk around outside of them wich really wasnt off the resort but i didnt want to leave at all i wanted to stay in a public area!
I stopped him and said no i dont want to go out there can we just talk here and he was like no i want to be alone with you and i was like well we're sorta alone here and i was like no dice... so one of the other animation staff members was walking by and i was pretty good friends with him (nothing more) and he explained to me (he had perfect english) that the other guy wanted to just go for a quick walk so i told him ok 10 minutes thinking that i couldnt get into too much trouble in 10 minutes...
So we didnt go far he was right about that and as soon as we had turned the corner he had my pants undone and was kissing me. (me being stupid was like ok its not gonna go far cause back home guys wont even try to do stuff with u their mostly nervous and arnt hard to stop if they arnt) and soon he had my pants down and had me on the ground and i was like wo no stop right now im not doing this and hes like but i love you and im like "like hell you dont even know me dont say that" and he was like why not and got all upset with me and stuff and i was like i said no and after alot of forcefull no's on my part he was like well i have protection you know condom and im like dude i said no (in my head im thinking what loser keeps condoms in his wallet obviously he was used to getting alot or he was plannign this) so he got really mad at me then and litterly grabbed my head and tried to get me to perform well you can guess the rest.... (sory if this is too detailed im trying to water it down) and i was like no a guy does not do that to me and i stood up and straightened my self out said good bye and walked back to my room (kind of ran actually) and i never looked back once.....
i feel kinda bad about leaving him liek that because i still cant believe what he was like but if i hadntve done what i did i liekly would not have walked away the same as i did. (cathc my drift) well needless to say i learned tons from that experience and im realy sory how long this is! PLEASE everyone spare me the lectures on how i was dumb and deserved it and im just a stupid young blond and all that crap cause i obviously know what could have happened and yeah..... im not looking for sympathy or attention so dont even bother criticizing me for that.... i guess the real reason im writing this is not only have i never told a sole about that incident i also hope that other girls will learn from this i think that if someone hadve told me a story like this before i left i might have been a bit wiser..... well thats my story and hope u didnt get tooooo bored!!!
Thanks
KC
*sits and patiently waits the rude remarks to fallow*
