sex has nothing to do with love and everything to do with DR chicas

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who cares what the ladies think with respect to ; love not having anything to do with sex'. Love is a little girls fantasy.

The fact is, love has nothing to do with sex. Ill explain my point of veiw....when a young boy first notices (at age 12 right through to 99 years) his tube-steak standing to attention. i am telling the women on this board now, his mind is not searching for someone to love deeply and intimately. He is in the mood for lust . Infact his mind and brain number 2 is only ever in the mood for LUST ! Thats the way it is, if your BF tells you any different he's lying...LYING TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!. Men are wired to F#$K

When i was with my previous girlfriend and i was in the mood for lust, i was not thinking 'oh i love you sooooooooo much honey-bear...pumpkin pie'... i was thinking get on all fours princess cause billy's in the mood for clam! Theres no love in this act. Infact at one point she asked me how deeply have i ever loved someone? i replied about 5 inches !!!!!!!!!

Did i respect her mind body and soul ...yes!!!( well some of the things i did with her body probably may never fall into the realm of R-E-S-P-E-C-T ... and as far as im concerned i was NEVER thinking about love when i had my tongue in her a$$...now that was an exercise in 'commitment' let me tell you but i digress....!) I also say this without any hesitation...did i love her...yes ! But when big bill's got a boner thats bustin to break out all i can say is that like ELVIS ...love just left the building.

when your husband is banging a woman in the DR that he has picked up from the local esteemed establishment ie the carwash , a woman thats 500% more attractive than you! I ask you, does he love you????? you would say 'no' . But the fact is, these guys 'do love you' they just dont believe sex goes hand in hand with love...From my subjective experience; i have met loads of these guys that travel to the DR that have left their dowdy wife at home to have sex with the hottest women on the planet. Your husbands aint thinking about the love they've shared with you over the last few years when they have their normally flaccid penis but now rigid and powerful in any of the 3 orifices of a Dominican princess...your husbands yearn for SEX with someone that is actually desirable! Someone that is not wearing sweat pants and a top, and when they have finished their sexual escapade they return home to be with the one they truly love... themselves...i mean their wife.
So absolutely, love has nothing to do with sex....but you can still dream your little girl dream that it does!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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don't agree!

Love and sex can be combined - just think about loved one while having sex ...:bunny:
 
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Men are wired to F#$K
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Listen to him ladies, for he tells the truth. All of us men are whorehounds in our hearts. (even so are your husbands, ladies). Nature programmed us that way. The purpose being--to procreate the species though we never think about that. The only difference between the faithful and the unfaithful is that the faithful are somehow able to muster up the ability to say no.
 
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The only difference between the faithful and the unfaithful is that the faithful are somehow able to muster up the ability to say no.
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Or no one ever wanted them .... Why do American men and women don't get along in bed? They seem to like foreigners for sex ... What is wrong with this country? Women start getting fat and wearing sweat pants as soon as they get married and men go other places looking for sex although keeping their marriage in the States, women do the same ... Can't they pick someone they actually want to be with both in bed and outside of it?
 
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billyidol said:
who cares what the ladies think with respect to ; love not having anything to do with sex'. Love is a little girls fantasy.

The fact is, love has nothing to do with sex. Ill explain my point of veiw....when a young boy first notices (at age 12 right through to 99 years) his tube-steak standing to attention. i am telling the women on this board now, his mind is not searching for someone to love deeply and intimately. He is in the mood for lust . Infact his mind and brain number 2 is only ever in the mood for LUST ! Thats the way it is, if your BF tells you any different he's lying...LYING TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!. Men are wired to F#$K


Did i respect her mind body and soul ...yes!!!(

SEX with someone that is actually desirable! Someone that is not wearing sweat pants and a top, and when they have finished their sexual escapade they return home to be with the one they truly love... themselves...i mean their wife.
So absolutely, love has nothing to do with sex....but you can still dream your little girl dream that it does!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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From time to time when I read things like these I have a moment where I half grudgeingly (sp?????) accept that this is how men are, this is their nature, they need to spread their seed, their dna.

I have realized that a man could love a woman very very much and still have sex with another woman for just the mere fact that he wants to spread his seed well actually he wants to try something different. I think I man can be faithfull with a woman he loves and desires for a while but I deeply doubt he can be faithful all his life, unless he has a very low libido.

So I think all marriages should be only made for the maximum of 5-10 years and the contracts could be extended at the end of the five years if both parties are in agreement. Everyone should have the right to switch partners after the end of the contract. :bunny:
 
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So I think all marriages should be only made for the maximum of 5-10 years and the contracts could be extended at the end of the five years if both parties are in agreement. Everyone should have the right to switch partners after the end of the contract. :bunny:
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I say let us use them for their seed then throw them away. Who needs them :laugh:

Anna feeling rebellious this morning :devious: :devious:
 
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From time to time when I read things like these I have a moment where I half grudgeingly (sp?????) accept that this is how men are, this is their nature, they need to spread their seed, their dna.

I have realized that a man could love a woman very very much and still have sex with another woman for just the mere fact that he wants to spread his seed well actually he wants to try something different. I think I man can be faithfull with a woman he loves and desires for a while but I deeply doubt he can be faithful all his life, unless he has a very low libido.

So I think all marriages should be only made for the maximum of 5-10 years and the contracts could be extended at the end of the five years if both parties are in agreement. Everyone should have the right to switch partners after the end of the contract. :bunny:
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Once you live with someone for that long, it is hard to switch to living with someone else. People can sort of agree that sex on the side is OK... Well, that would work great for men having sex with other women, but if a woman does that ... :angry:
 
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Thank you Billy.

All women need to be reminded that, for most men and for most of the time, sex does not have anything to do with love.

Now, that said - I have some questions for you.

1. You appear angry at the matron in sweat pants at home. If so, why?

2. Why be so harsh in your message?

3. And to the other posters who talk about marriage contracts with end dates and the likes, I would like to offer this up:

Although men can cheat and complain and although some of their complaints abou their wives may be valid, who takes it worse when the marriage disolves or if the wife passes away first? The man suffers most. This is a fact.

I do not have statistics, and I am not in the mood to go hunt them up. I assume most folks here read as much as I do, and we constantly come across articles about how married men live longer and how widowed men pass on soon after their wives and how the healthiest old men are the married ones.

Now, we can debate about why this is so, but that would be another thread. (sorry!)

Thank you for being provocative and for reminding women everywhere not to take it so seriously when a guy goes for some Different once in a Blue Moon.

-- Sam
 
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good laugh

billy, thanks for the laughs....you certainly have a descriptive way with words....

don't forget, however, that there are women out there who enjoy a good clambake as well....without the lovey-dovey crap!
 
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billy, thanks for the laughs....you certainly have a descriptive way with words....

don't forget, however, that there are women out there who enjoy a good clambake as well....without the lovey-dovey crap!
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Don't you guys wished all women were like this. Well most, 'cause some of you want a lady at home to make you guys look respectable. haha
 
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Don't you guys wished all women were like this. Well most, 'cause some of you want a lady at home to make you guys look respectable. haha
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It is because it is all "fake," they pretend to be family values oriented and conservative and then go as far as Amsterdam and DR to get it all out of their systems and then come back to their families afterwards like nothing happened ... They just cannot afford for people around them to find out and spoil their image.
 
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It is because it is all "fake," they pretend to be family values oriented and conservative and then go as far as Amsterdam and DR to get it all out of their systems and then come back to their families afterwards like nothing happened ... They just cannot afford for people around them to find out and spoil their image.

Can anyone spell R----h L--------h? Case in point. Family values, uff!

Now, if we were French those guys could have local mistresses and no trips to the RD.

Ever think about the fact that all those ole Viagra-poppin men are helping us, th eother tourists, by keeping demand (for airplanes seats) up and prices down...........just athought.
 
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respectable

ya know, being a woman has never made me understand why other women feel the need to "run" their relationships. if people had a little more respect for each other (and an open mind) everyone would be much happier. but that's just my opinion....sometimes people just need to let themselves go a little primal.
 
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ya know, being a woman has never made me understand why other women feel the need to "run" their relationships. if people had a little more respect for each other (and an open mind) everyone would be much happier. but that's just my opinion....sometimes people just need to let themselves go a little primal.
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.....but some men are not discreet, and also their should be some rules, like not shaging family members or friends??? right?

yes couples should give themselves space, its a necessity. It renews the fire.
 
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.....but some men are not discreet, and also their should be some rules, like not shaging family members or friends??? right?

yes couples should give themselves space, its a necessity. It renews the fire.
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I agree, space is space, freedom is great, but there should be boundaries ... Miguel said it right, men don't want to give respect but want respect back. How this can be?
 
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bill, you are on the money with this one. ladies, listen up b/c this is what men are really thinking (and what they believe in).

i have a friend that always complains about her man not paying attention to her blah blah blah. well, if she would wear something other than 10 year old sweat pants and her college tee's and loose 30 lbs, maybe he would look at her.

women get LAZY!!!!! and then wonder why the men stray!

p.s. Men get lazy too
 
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women just can't except how men are....they simply refuse to believe that they can't be changed, that somewhere deep, deep down inside there's a man that can be molded into every girl's fantasy. Why?? i just don't get it gals? why can't you just except them for who they are? that's what i like about men, they're men....sometimes i think it's too simple it seems complicated.
 
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