What do you know...

I let Nooooooobody have the passwords to my cellphone or email.......even though I have nothing to hide. It's just that prying eyes might misinterpret what they see and create problems for themselves and you too. This same thing just happened to another couple who are good friends of ours. SHE saw that her husband had received more than a few phones calls from a certain number that she didn't recognize and she started investigating. To make the story short she found out that the incoming calls were very innocent--but not after confronting the lady who was calling, the ladies' husband and then her own husband. The investigating wife was so embarrased that she wound up in the hospital to be treated for her nerves.

No insecurities

Who cares? Life is too daggone short to be worried about such trivial nonsense.

However, I must add this. I am secure about my relationships and so are they. I don't need to worry about these things because they don't happen. If you know who you are going out with then you shouldn't either.

But, if you are going out with a sankie/sankiette/puto/puta/whatever then you will see this activity happen. Their phone constantly ringing and they are running off for all periods of time. Hey, anyone can have a phone call come in and anyone can be pulled away from their novia/novio once or twice an day. However, to have this happen every couple of minutes? No way Jose.


Go out with a serious person and this will not happen I assure you.


My 2 pesos worth

jrf said:

A friend of mine there has now got a 'boyfriend' an older 'gentleman' and she is now living with him.
Well, he is not too trusting and now I am not supposed to email her. I know her from one of the restaurants in Batey and became friends.
He has her password for her email and she doesn't want anymore trouble with him.
Doesnt really matter to me. I miss knowing how she is doing but kinda wierd.

Then again-if he doesn't even trust her why bother living with her. But then I know the answer to that one. No love real.

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That's ironic. I have a friend that I met on my first trip and we hit it off really well-like brother and sister. She is now dating a guy and I told her if she can't speak to me anymore because of her relationship I understand. She tells him about me and so far the communication has never stopped. I can only assume he's OK with it, but then again hes' not dominican and you know how jealous and posessive they can be. I would hate to lose a friend like her over petty jealousy.

HOLY CRAP SCOTTY..........thanks for that observation....if you have to worry about your security in regards to your mates access to security codes you may want to analyze your relationship.....although having said that keep all financial records secret.

They don't know doodly squat

gary short said:

HOLY CRAP SCOTTY..........thanks for that observation....if you have to worry about your security in regards to your mates access to security codes you may want to analyze your relationship.....although having said that keep all financial records secret.

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The only one that knows my personal financial records is my accountant. Who the heck divulges their financial records to some chica for Pete's sake???

Security codes for whom? Him/Her? If I have to worry about such ka ka she isn't worth it, period.

But then what are we talking about here? Guys/gals that get BOINKED? Ha ha ha ha, hoooooooooooooooiiiiieeeeeeeeee! Sankies and Sankiettes change their phone about as often as we change our socks (or as often as we should change our socks). I haven't gone through that nonsense in many years and even then I didn't buy them phones, couldn't care less who they were or are banging and still don't.

This whole thing is a joke. I don't want to know any idiotic codes, follow them around blabbity blah blah.....phoooie ( I spat). Come on guys/gals...do you really give a rat's arse? If he/she is a serious guy or girl you won't have to worry about it.

A serious woman or man doesn't receive calls every couple of minutes. Especially if they are with you!

What? Scotty! Nahhhhhh.....

You? BOINKED? Say it isnt so!

:bunny:

Therapy?

jrf said:

I think there may be a good therapist out there for you Scotty. lol

My original question was about relationships, my friend, her older ex-pat that controls her now, my wife before.

A simple question-not a sankie forum post by the way.

I just find it wierd. Don't like it contribute to another thread.

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Because I am secure in my relationships? You know? You might be right....

Who said I didn't like it? You are posting about keeping track of your novia??? The Dominican Republic? You really need to keep track of her cell phone? THis thread should be moved to the....oh nooooooooooo...shhhhhhhhhhh sankie forum. Sorry...it belongs there and it isn't a matter if I like it or not.

Let me check..................

Robin'sGirl said:

You? BOINKED? Say it isnt so!

:bunny:

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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...... nope, but I came close....does that count as being.....ahh ahhhhhhhh.....can I yell it? Woaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....boinked

It's a strange kind of thing this privacy issue. Just thinking back I gave my password to my best friend of 20 years, he's a computer fixer guy and I wanted to know why I couldn't save pictures in my hotmail account. The funny thing is that I have no secrets from this guy and I also have nothing that interesting to find in my hotmail account but as soon as a few days went by I changed my password. Weird I know.

I'm not sure how I would feel about giving a husband or boyfriend my passwords like someone said, what if they take an innocent email and make more than it is. I think it depends on your partner. If you have a guy that makes a huge deal everytime he seems an email from a guy even if the email was nothing then you have yourself a more serious problem than emails.


Anyone want my password to hotmail? :laugh:

Yeah

jrf said:

Umm never said she was my novia.

If she was I would say so. Not a sock puppet thanks.

Anyway-the original question?

Berzin had the point and obvious read the question properly-thanks Berzin.

Anyone else have an opinion?

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Don't give out the daggone password.

Its all about trust

If your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife asks you for the password to your cell phone or computer, they obviously have a suspicion about something and don?t trust you. If you do not give it to him/her, you obviously have a trust issue as well, and you will probably look quilty. The only password that should remain secret at all times would be the ones tied to any financial information.

What?s the big deal if you have nothing to hide? Trust ? that?s what it?s all about.

Man oh man!

DominicanScotty said:

The only one that knows my personal financial records is my accountant. Who the heck divulges their financial records to some chica for Pete's sake???

Security codes for whom? Him/Her? If I have to worry about such ka ka she isn't worth it, period.

But then what are we talking about here? Guys/gals that get BOINKED? Ha ha ha ha, hoooooooooooooooiiiiieeeeeeeeee! Sankies and Sankiettes change their phone about as often as we change our socks (or as often as we should change our socks). I haven't gone through that nonsense in many years and even then I didn't buy them phones, couldn't care less who they were or are banging and still don't.

This whole thing is a joke. I don't want to know any idiotic codes, follow them around blabbity blah blah.....phoooie ( I spat). Come on guys/gals...do you really give a rat's arse? If he/she is a serious guy or girl you won't have to worry about it.

A serious woman or man doesn't receive calls every couple of minutes. Especially if they are with you!

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ABSOLUTAMENTE CORRECTOMUNDO!!.

Has any of you guys ever heard of a person's right to his/her PRIVACY???.

Giving your boyfriend or g/f any security codes is unheard of!. Why in hell?.

A wife?, ok. But a girlfriend?. Don't you guys read or watch the news?. Haven't you heard or read what SOME b/f's and girlfriends have done(during, before and after the relationship ends) to those trusting partner after giving them their personal information?.

If I have to worry about who is emailing my g/f, she is a goner.

If I had to worry who she is emaling, she is a goner.

If she gets calls every minute when she is with me, she is a goner.

If she calls someone every minute while we are together, she is a goner!.

Just the thought of a girlfriend asking me for my personal codes is giving me a headache, lol.

Now, if the issue is that they want it because they don't trust you. Then there's 2 things for a person to do:

1- For the asking person:

to understand that no matter if he/she gets all the security codes he/she wants, if the other person is going to cheat on you, they will find a way, even if they have to do it on top of your head!.

2- For the person being asked:

since the other person obviously have some trusting issues, TIME TO MOVE ON!.

Btw, even if I have nothing to hide, I would NOT even let a girlfriend answer my cell phone. Just like I would NOT answer hers. It's called having the right to your own privacy!.

The VERRRRY few that "hinted" about email and phone codes were met with "I know you are kidding but in case you are not, learn your place because only a wife gets those types of information".

Girlfriends are just like boyfriends, you give them a finger, they want to take the whole arm!.

The more you give, the more they feel they own you!. Look it up, it happens every single day!.

Btw, don't we "talk" about this issue here all the time, about people not giving g/f's and b/f's their personal information?. Or are people just not supposed to give them to Sankies only?.

Information is power!!!!

jrf said:

How many of you know the passwords or cell phone numbers listed in your Domicana/o's computer and cell phone.

When I was living with and then married to my wife being able to use her cell phone if I needed or see/read her email it was never a big deal.

Do you let your partner read your email? See who you have been phoning?

Would you date or live with your Dominicana/o without being able to see who they are emailing, chatting with, or calling?

How about back home? Here it would be no big deal for them to see mine (so to speak :cheeky: )

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Do you want to relinquish power? Never give out passwords, pins, or any other information. Always keep your email address confidential and use an alias email address to receive mail, which you can then forward to your real email.

Consider this scenario, you receive a spam for a XXX site, then she sees it and accuses you of being a porno addict ... keep it confidential to avoid future issues

shadInToronto said:

Do you want to relinquish power? Never give out passwords, pins, or any other information. Always keep your email address confidential and use an alias email address to receive mail, which you can then forward to your real email.

Consider this scenario, you receive a spam for a XXX site, then she sees it and accuses you of being a porno addict ... keep it confidential to avoid future issues

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You sound like you have something to hide.......... and have done this many times???aranoid:

Is it about power?

Your scenario sounds ligit, those pop ups are a pain!!!!

Not true!!!!

audrav said:

You sound like you have something to hide .......... and have done this many times??? Never!!!! aranoid:

Is it about power? ... this is the information age

Your scenario sounds ligit, those pop ups are a pain!!!!

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Hypothetical scenario aranoid: .... IT training, security is paramount