2LeftFeet-I totally agree with you. I don't think sankiette/sankies are really in love with that person, this is the game they play. They have to make the person think they are in love with them to get what they want. Money, gifts, visa whatever it is.
To play this game for a long period of time and steal that persons heart and love is the cruelest thing anyone can do. It boggles my mind too how their family can condone this. Alot of times they are all in on this-mother,father, siblings,wife,g/f. But I guess if its going to benefit them that's all they care about. Not how this will affect the person who's been used.