Well, if it makes you feel any better, i'm in exactly the same boat. I got a letter November 23 saying they would send it to Haiti. I heard it can also take a while to get to Haiti. Then once there it could sit there for a while. They don't change the status online right away, so it's pretty behind. They could have started processing by now but we'll never know. I'm hoping my hubby will be here by July or August. I'm due to have a baby in August so i hope he's here by then. But as everyone else says, you just have to sit back and wait and be patient. I don't think there is any point in e-mailing cause they don't seem to respond. So just be patient. I'm sure they've received it and will get to it in due time.
Good luck.