Both. It would depend on the given person, and the circumstances, but quite obviously, both love and sex play a role.Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?
None of the above ... it's not under their control to decide, hormone is the reason. :bunny:Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?
Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?
Absolutely true ..... their reality is skewed by a chemical imbalance due to active hormones. :ermm:...People that are sankified don't really think they have been taken. You can tell by the way they lash back
The way I am looking at this picture...is this website has a forum specifically for Sankie type threads...maybe they spun it out of the men from mars and women from venus forum, which normally would deal with sex and love and relationships.
so
doesnt it follow that if someone comes on here and spills their guts about what going on to them or what happened....NO one has a right to say"
OH NO NOT ANOTHER ONE
laurapasinifn...I agree with you 100%....people who have been used and lied to by "sankies" do not need someone telling them how "stupid" they've been. That somehow they deserved this type of treatment.
We know that we have been naive and "stupid" to fall for this. But most times when you realize it, then its too late. Sankies are such good con artists that you believe what they tell you. I still don't understand how someone could use and mistreat a person for their own personal gain. Especially someone that you thought cared for you and loved you.
I'm not talking about someone you met and the same day they tell you they love you and want to marry you. I'm talking about someone you have had a relationship with for a couple of years. Only to find out thay you were deceived by that person to get a visa.
I think some people get confused because they read that if the "sankie" asks for money & gifts, look out. But they have to realize that some sankies won't ask for money/gifts because their main purpose is the visa. And some of them will play the game for as long as it takes them to get out.
I just wish that more people would read what's posted, keep an open mind and lsiten to the more serious posts. Because they can be useful, but only if your prepared to listen. When people post negative responses then people close their minds and feel they need to defend their relationship...that's just human nature.
So OP, I think some women give money and gifts just for sex. But I think the majority just want to be loved and hope for a lasting realationship. We all want & need love and know that someone cares for you-human nature not "stupidity"
Oh yeah--- I forgot to put my last line-- after feeling so bad about what you've done the last thing you want to do is come to a forum where you think you're going to get support only to find out that-- you're going to get belittled and made fun of by a bunch of strangers! That's even more humiliating.
there are plenty of ways to tell someone , they have been made a fool of..
one another note...what is the time frame for someone to fall into this situation that labels them sanktified?
who makes it up also?
is it a one vacation fling...or if a person comes back 6 times....
the reason I ask is based on my relationship....I have what i think is a normal ( alebieth long distance) relationship with a dominican woman.. many of the things that have expired in my time with her, could easily have been labeld a form of being sanktified. But they werent, they were just things that happen in an emotional relationship. I saw many of the thing happens in my time seeing this woman that were totally being called "being played by a snakiette"...but I used my common sense, (just like a lot of other people say they do) to figure out what was going on....you could put the sanky label on half the things that happen between a lovingly MARRIED couple of 10 years. If my gf finds someone else, have I been a sanktified?
dont millions of couple break up when one finds someone else? and just because one person in the relationship paid for more stuff than the other....is one a victim?
I know people tried to tell me my GF had a dominican BF all the time when I first came here. And i was told if my Girl is from the barrios or campos and she is seeing me, it is for one thing. And even if it was true 100 times before me, doesnt make it true. maybe I have been lucky, every one THINKS they have it under control..I guess i was no exception. I have been dating my GF for more than 18 months now...I have bought some stuff, jewelry( because i love her) shoes same reason plus i want her to look as good as she can...it makes me look good. clothes same reason again...i have bought a few things for the house, bought animals, taken relatives on trips with us....and if tomorrow she dumps me....did she sanktify me?
absolutely not. I doubt this woman could ever be a contriving, manipulative sankie ever...but she certainly is capable of falling for someone else
Father, forgive me for i have been sankiefied...this is not a Catholic church...geesh !!
A SANKIE IS NOT JUST DOMINICAN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FORIENGER. IT IS SPECIFICALLY ONE WHO 'FAKES' A RELATIONSHIP, WHO 'FAKES' LOVE IN ORDER TO MATIERAL ITEMS OR A VISA.
Did she sankify you? It's hard to say. sankfying you? No one can tell for sure. But odds sure are damn good. .
Why do foreign women give 'sankies' money and gifts? Is if for pure sex or is it for the hope of love and a lasting relationship?