I can't believe I fell for it!
I went to the DR for Christmas and New Year, this was my first trip there although my family went last August.
I must admit, I also feel a like I have been taken in. I am usually quite sensible and don't always let my feelings take over as I have been hurt quite badly in the past and have generally tried to be a bit more careful etc.
However, I did meet an 'entertainment' worker whilst out there who I am quite besotted with. I've read so many postings about sankies and what to look out for etc and have been trying to cross reference this guy.
He hasn't asked me for money and has called me a few times and spoken to me on MSN etc. But he has told me he wants to be with me and loves me, I even spoke to his children on the phone.
Its very hard to explain what its like and I know that if I blatantly ask if I'm being taken for a ride somebody will probably say yes. I am desperate to go back and see him and am trying to go back in April.
He has a brother living in germany and has stayed in germany for about 7-8 months a few years ago. He has applied for another visa twice now and has been refused but I believe that he does not want me for a visa as surely with his brother living in germany eventually they may say yes again.
We did talk about me inviting him over to england but I also explained that I could not afford to 'keep' him for 6 months so he would have to have access to some money.
Sorry, I know I'm going on a bit but I really need some advice, as with some of the others should I cut it...I am starting to doubt his sincerity and am worried that I could lose someone I could be happy with or that I could fall even further for this guy and end up getting seriously hurt.
What should I do? Should I continue or should I cut it now?
Please, please help me!!!
I went to the DR for Christmas and New Year, this was my first trip there although my family went last August.
I must admit, I also feel a like I have been taken in. I am usually quite sensible and don't always let my feelings take over as I have been hurt quite badly in the past and have generally tried to be a bit more careful etc.
However, I did meet an 'entertainment' worker whilst out there who I am quite besotted with. I've read so many postings about sankies and what to look out for etc and have been trying to cross reference this guy.
He hasn't asked me for money and has called me a few times and spoken to me on MSN etc. But he has told me he wants to be with me and loves me, I even spoke to his children on the phone.
Its very hard to explain what its like and I know that if I blatantly ask if I'm being taken for a ride somebody will probably say yes. I am desperate to go back and see him and am trying to go back in April.
He has a brother living in germany and has stayed in germany for about 7-8 months a few years ago. He has applied for another visa twice now and has been refused but I believe that he does not want me for a visa as surely with his brother living in germany eventually they may say yes again.
We did talk about me inviting him over to england but I also explained that I could not afford to 'keep' him for 6 months so he would have to have access to some money.
Sorry, I know I'm going on a bit but I really need some advice, as with some of the others should I cut it...I am starting to doubt his sincerity and am worried that I could lose someone I could be happy with or that I could fall even further for this guy and end up getting seriously hurt.
What should I do? Should I continue or should I cut it now?
Please, please help me!!!