Okay, I need SERIOUS replies only. None of the bs and making fun stuff.
My husband and I took our daughter to Punta Cana for her 21st birthday. We stayed at an all inclusive resort. While there she met a guy. He did not approach her, however, he did look at her several times. He is a dancer that performs at several different resorts. She was with me when she met him the first night we were there and he visited with her and me that night before he had to leave with the rest of those he dances with. She gave him her phone number and he called her the next day and asked her as well as her dad and I to come see him dance the following night. He said he would come pick us up and take us there...he did that and we went to see him dance. He met my husband that night. He got us a cab back to our hotel and was going to pay for it but my husband insisted that we pay.
I also have to say that he knew she was dating someone and while talking she mentioned that her boyfriend was from the Dominican Republic and a minor league baseball player. She told him all about how her boyfriend had wanted her to buy him a cell phone when he went back home and that she had told him that she wouldn't and that she would NEVER support a man or give him money. He had no reason to feel that he would get anything from her in return other then friendship.
The next two days he came to our hotel and spent the day with our daughter and us. Since we have gotten back home he has called her several times a week. He has never once asked for anything at all. He bought our daughter a couple little things and when she would mention something like: she didn't like the yellow gold earrings and that she liked white gold he changed his earrings before he saw her the next day or she wanted some gum and she didn't have any he brought her some the next time he saw her...things like that.
He has told her about his life and all about what he has done. He has told her that he would like to take her to Santo Domingo to show her where he grew up. He introduced her to everyone in the dance group and when he calls he will have her talk to one of them or a couple of them so she can get to know his friends.
He has not once asked for money and has paid his way all the time. He mentioned he was not able to work for 4 days as he was sick but never said he needed money.
Now we have decided to go back for a return visit and stay at the same place. My daughter has told this guy she is coming back and he has asked if they can hang out again. He knows that I don't let her out of my sight. I go where she goes...she is cautious that way. He has asked if we would like to go to Santo Domingo to see where he grew up. He wants to take her to the disco. After reading all of the past posts I am now scared to have her see him again while we are there.
Also she has just broken up with her boyfriend and this guy knows this. They have become friends talking to each other. She knows about alot about him but she has been very cautious about what she has told him...that is the way she is.
So do I worry about her seeing him again? I really don't want to let her go to the disco with him alone but I am not going there. If he is a sankie is he dangerous? I don't think she is interested in him as anything more then a friend as she is talking to another guy right now (minor league ball player again only this one is different from the last one.) I just want to make sure she is safe while we are there and does not get into something that could be dangerous.
My husband and I took our daughter to Punta Cana for her 21st birthday. We stayed at an all inclusive resort. While there she met a guy. He did not approach her, however, he did look at her several times. He is a dancer that performs at several different resorts. She was with me when she met him the first night we were there and he visited with her and me that night before he had to leave with the rest of those he dances with. She gave him her phone number and he called her the next day and asked her as well as her dad and I to come see him dance the following night. He said he would come pick us up and take us there...he did that and we went to see him dance. He met my husband that night. He got us a cab back to our hotel and was going to pay for it but my husband insisted that we pay.
I also have to say that he knew she was dating someone and while talking she mentioned that her boyfriend was from the Dominican Republic and a minor league baseball player. She told him all about how her boyfriend had wanted her to buy him a cell phone when he went back home and that she had told him that she wouldn't and that she would NEVER support a man or give him money. He had no reason to feel that he would get anything from her in return other then friendship.
The next two days he came to our hotel and spent the day with our daughter and us. Since we have gotten back home he has called her several times a week. He has never once asked for anything at all. He bought our daughter a couple little things and when she would mention something like: she didn't like the yellow gold earrings and that she liked white gold he changed his earrings before he saw her the next day or she wanted some gum and she didn't have any he brought her some the next time he saw her...things like that.
He has told her about his life and all about what he has done. He has told her that he would like to take her to Santo Domingo to show her where he grew up. He introduced her to everyone in the dance group and when he calls he will have her talk to one of them or a couple of them so she can get to know his friends.
He has not once asked for money and has paid his way all the time. He mentioned he was not able to work for 4 days as he was sick but never said he needed money.
Now we have decided to go back for a return visit and stay at the same place. My daughter has told this guy she is coming back and he has asked if they can hang out again. He knows that I don't let her out of my sight. I go where she goes...she is cautious that way. He has asked if we would like to go to Santo Domingo to see where he grew up. He wants to take her to the disco. After reading all of the past posts I am now scared to have her see him again while we are there.
Also she has just broken up with her boyfriend and this guy knows this. They have become friends talking to each other. She knows about alot about him but she has been very cautious about what she has told him...that is the way she is.
So do I worry about her seeing him again? I really don't want to let her go to the disco with him alone but I am not going there. If he is a sankie is he dangerous? I don't think she is interested in him as anything more then a friend as she is talking to another guy right now (minor league ball player again only this one is different from the last one.) I just want to make sure she is safe while we are there and does not get into something that could be dangerous.