Hello everyone, Just want to tell my story.............
This is my first time on DR1. I am married to a Dominican man for 10 years now. We met here in NJ in 96, got married in 97, had a son in 98 and daughter in 02. He is a good man, father and husband (so I thought). We have had our ups and downs, but I think the last year, I lost him. In 2004 we had our first trip to DR. This was his first time back to his country for over 17 years. We stayed at a resort in Juan Dolio, close to his city. Everyday we went to his city and I met everyone the family knows. Since then, he decided that every year he wanted to return to DR. In 2006, he went out there in Feb. by himself, then again in June with our son (8 yrs old). Both times he was out there for 2-3 weeks. I trusted him!! He is my husband for 9 years, he's not going to do anything. NOT!!! I found out this year that he hooked up with a sankiette in Feb of 06!!! When he took our son out there, he actually put it out in our son's face. He did a lot of things with this puta and my son caught on very fast. When my son told him that he was going to call mommy and tell her that he was doing a lot of things with this puta, my husband cried to him. He told my son not to say anything to me that mommy would not love him anymore. So for a whole year, my son kept this secret until this Feb. when my husband went out there again. I trusted him with so much, now my heart is broken. He made another mistake. He told a friend of ours about his little puta in DR. That friend told me and then I started investigating. While he was out there, I called him at 2am, he didn't answer the phone, but I had found a few DR #'s from phone records and called them up. La puta answered and I asked for my husband, and her dumb a$$ put him on the phone. NOW THAT HE IS BUSTED!!! His whole family lives here in NJ, and his mother and 3 sisters and a brother are very upset with him. They are all on my side, and he hates that. His life right now has been a living hell since he came home. The funny thing about all of this is that de is pi$$ed at me that I found out and is acting like I was the one doing something wrong. I know that the so-called threat was out there and that he wll never go out there again without me. I love him with all of my heart, but it is broken still. He has not apoligized to me yet, or admitted it to me, but I have a lot of patience and I know that my kindness is eating him up inside. He will one day ask for forgivenss, but only God knows how our marriage will end up to be. I don't think that it was my fault for trusting him, but that he made a very bad decision, and he has to live with this, and I will not ever let him forget it. I am watching him like a hawk now. I never in our 10 years of marriage thought that this would ever happen.
So being married to a Dominican man, has been like riding a roller coaster. We've had our ups & downs, and sharp turns, and at the end of the ride I don't know if I am thrilled from the excitement or if I want to puke. But I am trying my best to keep it all together, as a family.
This is my first time on DR1. I am married to a Dominican man for 10 years now. We met here in NJ in 96, got married in 97, had a son in 98 and daughter in 02. He is a good man, father and husband (so I thought). We have had our ups and downs, but I think the last year, I lost him. In 2004 we had our first trip to DR. This was his first time back to his country for over 17 years. We stayed at a resort in Juan Dolio, close to his city. Everyday we went to his city and I met everyone the family knows. Since then, he decided that every year he wanted to return to DR. In 2006, he went out there in Feb. by himself, then again in June with our son (8 yrs old). Both times he was out there for 2-3 weeks. I trusted him!! He is my husband for 9 years, he's not going to do anything. NOT!!! I found out this year that he hooked up with a sankiette in Feb of 06!!! When he took our son out there, he actually put it out in our son's face. He did a lot of things with this puta and my son caught on very fast. When my son told him that he was going to call mommy and tell her that he was doing a lot of things with this puta, my husband cried to him. He told my son not to say anything to me that mommy would not love him anymore. So for a whole year, my son kept this secret until this Feb. when my husband went out there again. I trusted him with so much, now my heart is broken. He made another mistake. He told a friend of ours about his little puta in DR. That friend told me and then I started investigating. While he was out there, I called him at 2am, he didn't answer the phone, but I had found a few DR #'s from phone records and called them up. La puta answered and I asked for my husband, and her dumb a$$ put him on the phone. NOW THAT HE IS BUSTED!!! His whole family lives here in NJ, and his mother and 3 sisters and a brother are very upset with him. They are all on my side, and he hates that. His life right now has been a living hell since he came home. The funny thing about all of this is that de is pi$$ed at me that I found out and is acting like I was the one doing something wrong. I know that the so-called threat was out there and that he wll never go out there again without me. I love him with all of my heart, but it is broken still. He has not apoligized to me yet, or admitted it to me, but I have a lot of patience and I know that my kindness is eating him up inside. He will one day ask for forgivenss, but only God knows how our marriage will end up to be. I don't think that it was my fault for trusting him, but that he made a very bad decision, and he has to live with this, and I will not ever let him forget it. I am watching him like a hawk now. I never in our 10 years of marriage thought that this would ever happen.
So being married to a Dominican man, has been like riding a roller coaster. We've had our ups & downs, and sharp turns, and at the end of the ride I don't know if I am thrilled from the excitement or if I want to puke. But I am trying my best to keep it all together, as a family.