So here it goes, as im sitting here crying my eyes off I really hope that this story can help someone out there! First i want to say im not ugly or fat and i have a good head on my shoulder.
So 2 years ago i visited the DR, it was one of those vacation just to get away as there was a lot happening in my life my first option was Cuba but then with hurricaine Dennis the trip was cancelled and reschedualed to the DR. I meet someone very genuine ( no i wont name any names) nothing happened all that we did was talk not about stupid things but more about life and other things, deep conversations. We hit it off right off the bat wich for me isnt weird because i get along with a lot of people and im very friendly and sociable. When leaving i left that person my email and phone number as I do have penpals all around! I arrived home and got a call from him just wanting to know if all was ok there was no i love you and all that other crap. I never really called and he did most of the calling. Then in December of that same year i graduated law school and decided to go to DR and Italy as a graduation gift . When returning to the DR i spent more time with him and things grew. We made it official but still no i love you etc . I went back in March of the following year and things were even greater! I spent a lot of time visiting the country and learning the language and making friends and we finally made it really official when he gave me a ring. Things were great i had told him i had already planned to move there in september and he helped me find a place and all. when i moved my dad came down meet him and like him we lived together and he paid half of everything (he actually gave me his whole paycheck everytime he would get paid and told me to use it for the appt and things we needed). My whole 4 months there were great no regrets what so ever loved everything about it. And I had told one of his friends once when asking why i spoke spanish I said so i can make sure he doesnt make any stupid comments and understand conversation he has with others. I had read all the sankie stories and all but I had no red flags till after i came back from my 4 months there.
I came back in December back home and thats when things started getting rocky, I had meet his family and loved them but things between us wasnt the same i had that woman intuition the feeling when u know something is up and still cant figure what. Found out he lied about certain things and had cheated (I decided after a month of thinking to forgive and try to make it work as i had invested a lot not financially but emotionnally). Well that was the mistake i made and i know see it. When forgiving i guess some people think they can do it again and it will all be ok. I went back in may and we had the longest talks and i said i was ready to put the past behind with certain conditions wich we both agreed to. Planned to get married and he had saved money over 1000$ USD to get me my engagement ring.
I came home sure things were great till i started to trully open my eyes and saw he was taking me for granted , the calls keeped on beeing less and less , the emails no more! No picking up the phone when i called and all these excuses came up, thats when I had enough and decided to put my foot down, why was I gonna put up with all of that when i dont even accept that from someone back home! So last night I did the hardest thing ever after 2 yrs I decided to just end it as it wasnt worth it anymore and i hated the person i had become jealous and all i was never like that but with the cheating and me forgiving i found myself changing!
Listen girls who are out there dating a dominican men, all i can say is that MOST im not saying all BUT MOST are con artist, and i found what i found cuz im a good detective. Whats the point of beeing with someone if u always have to worry if they are with someone else or not!
Does it hurt hellllllllll yes!!!!!!!!! will it hurt tomorrow even more then today but in the long run I know who i am and i know what i deserve and i was blinded by this fictionnal love that only seemed to exist in my mind and even after 2 years im happy that i came to my senses and realized I DESERVED SOOOOO MUCH MORE AND MUCH BETTER! Why give up everything for someone who and cant do the same for you?
I hope it does help others cuz love is sooooooo blind and dominicans working in resorts most of them are con artist and will make u belive the world if you let them! I hope it helps, i never wanted to say anything before because i guess i did not want people to tell me the truth and i just wanted to belive in my own reality that never really existed! Like I told him last night: YOU DO NOT LOVE ME YOU LOVE THE IDEA OF ME!
Bellissima
So 2 years ago i visited the DR, it was one of those vacation just to get away as there was a lot happening in my life my first option was Cuba but then with hurricaine Dennis the trip was cancelled and reschedualed to the DR. I meet someone very genuine ( no i wont name any names) nothing happened all that we did was talk not about stupid things but more about life and other things, deep conversations. We hit it off right off the bat wich for me isnt weird because i get along with a lot of people and im very friendly and sociable. When leaving i left that person my email and phone number as I do have penpals all around! I arrived home and got a call from him just wanting to know if all was ok there was no i love you and all that other crap. I never really called and he did most of the calling. Then in December of that same year i graduated law school and decided to go to DR and Italy as a graduation gift . When returning to the DR i spent more time with him and things grew. We made it official but still no i love you etc . I went back in March of the following year and things were even greater! I spent a lot of time visiting the country and learning the language and making friends and we finally made it really official when he gave me a ring. Things were great i had told him i had already planned to move there in september and he helped me find a place and all. when i moved my dad came down meet him and like him we lived together and he paid half of everything (he actually gave me his whole paycheck everytime he would get paid and told me to use it for the appt and things we needed). My whole 4 months there were great no regrets what so ever loved everything about it. And I had told one of his friends once when asking why i spoke spanish I said so i can make sure he doesnt make any stupid comments and understand conversation he has with others. I had read all the sankie stories and all but I had no red flags till after i came back from my 4 months there.
I came back in December back home and thats when things started getting rocky, I had meet his family and loved them but things between us wasnt the same i had that woman intuition the feeling when u know something is up and still cant figure what. Found out he lied about certain things and had cheated (I decided after a month of thinking to forgive and try to make it work as i had invested a lot not financially but emotionnally). Well that was the mistake i made and i know see it. When forgiving i guess some people think they can do it again and it will all be ok. I went back in may and we had the longest talks and i said i was ready to put the past behind with certain conditions wich we both agreed to. Planned to get married and he had saved money over 1000$ USD to get me my engagement ring.
I came home sure things were great till i started to trully open my eyes and saw he was taking me for granted , the calls keeped on beeing less and less , the emails no more! No picking up the phone when i called and all these excuses came up, thats when I had enough and decided to put my foot down, why was I gonna put up with all of that when i dont even accept that from someone back home! So last night I did the hardest thing ever after 2 yrs I decided to just end it as it wasnt worth it anymore and i hated the person i had become jealous and all i was never like that but with the cheating and me forgiving i found myself changing!
Listen girls who are out there dating a dominican men, all i can say is that MOST im not saying all BUT MOST are con artist, and i found what i found cuz im a good detective. Whats the point of beeing with someone if u always have to worry if they are with someone else or not!
Does it hurt hellllllllll yes!!!!!!!!! will it hurt tomorrow even more then today but in the long run I know who i am and i know what i deserve and i was blinded by this fictionnal love that only seemed to exist in my mind and even after 2 years im happy that i came to my senses and realized I DESERVED SOOOOO MUCH MORE AND MUCH BETTER! Why give up everything for someone who and cant do the same for you?
I hope it does help others cuz love is sooooooo blind and dominicans working in resorts most of them are con artist and will make u belive the world if you let them! I hope it helps, i never wanted to say anything before because i guess i did not want people to tell me the truth and i just wanted to belive in my own reality that never really existed! Like I told him last night: YOU DO NOT LOVE ME YOU LOVE THE IDEA OF ME!
Bellissima
