I have a question burning deep inside me, and knowing I can't ask any of my friends I decided to ask all you experts!!
I read on another thread somewhere about knowing if what Dominican man is saying is real or not...however I am still confused as to whether or not the DR boy I am currently talking to is as interested as he makes himself seem.
Here is the background to our "relationship"
I went on a poverty awareness trip, something very popular within my school, many students have gone for over 17 years. It has been the same tour guides for the past few years and I haven't heard any stories about the female students "hooking up" with any of the guides.
So this time around when I went down I started to realize that one of our guides was extremely good looking. About the 5th day into the trip he started doing some casual flirting -- sitting with me on the bus, walking beside me, making sure I was in his group, asking me to stand beside him, putting his arms around me. On the last day there he made sure he spent all of our free time with me. He held my hand and gave me his necklace so that I would remember him. And yes, I will admit that he gave me a kiss.
He gave me his e-mail and his phone number--but I opted to just give him my email address and since the trip we have been on msn and passing emails back and forth to each other.
About 3 weeks after the trip he started telling me how much he missed me and how he felt about me and that he wishes that one day I would come back. He asks about my mom all the time and always tells me to say Hi to her for him.
2 weeks I decided that I would tell him that I was planning a return trip to the Dominican to spend a large amount of time down there. He was very excited! He offered to help me in any way possible, he told me he would make sure he would take the day of work and rent a cab so that he can pick me up at the air port, he did offer me an extra room in his dad's house-- which he keeps telling me he is getting ready for me. He has asked me to meet his brothers and sisters and told me he would take me to visit the Batays to teach some English.
He seems genuine to me, I don't really know how to tell over msn though. The things he says are very sweet and very nice. He hasn't mentioned sex at all, he always makes sure that I am okay when we are talking, and I will admit...he has said the big "L" word. I haven't told him I loved him back--but he isn't shy to tell me that he loves me and that he gets very upset when we don't talk for a few days in a row.
--The love seemed to come very quickly, but it didn't come right away--which people said was bad.
soooo I know that was very long and it probably isn't as detailed as you would like. If you want more details let me know--Other than that.....
I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE AND SOME HELP!!!!
Do I believe him? Are his actions genuine?
I read on another thread somewhere about knowing if what Dominican man is saying is real or not...however I am still confused as to whether or not the DR boy I am currently talking to is as interested as he makes himself seem.
Here is the background to our "relationship"
I went on a poverty awareness trip, something very popular within my school, many students have gone for over 17 years. It has been the same tour guides for the past few years and I haven't heard any stories about the female students "hooking up" with any of the guides.
So this time around when I went down I started to realize that one of our guides was extremely good looking. About the 5th day into the trip he started doing some casual flirting -- sitting with me on the bus, walking beside me, making sure I was in his group, asking me to stand beside him, putting his arms around me. On the last day there he made sure he spent all of our free time with me. He held my hand and gave me his necklace so that I would remember him. And yes, I will admit that he gave me a kiss.
He gave me his e-mail and his phone number--but I opted to just give him my email address and since the trip we have been on msn and passing emails back and forth to each other.
About 3 weeks after the trip he started telling me how much he missed me and how he felt about me and that he wishes that one day I would come back. He asks about my mom all the time and always tells me to say Hi to her for him.
2 weeks I decided that I would tell him that I was planning a return trip to the Dominican to spend a large amount of time down there. He was very excited! He offered to help me in any way possible, he told me he would make sure he would take the day of work and rent a cab so that he can pick me up at the air port, he did offer me an extra room in his dad's house-- which he keeps telling me he is getting ready for me. He has asked me to meet his brothers and sisters and told me he would take me to visit the Batays to teach some English.
He seems genuine to me, I don't really know how to tell over msn though. The things he says are very sweet and very nice. He hasn't mentioned sex at all, he always makes sure that I am okay when we are talking, and I will admit...he has said the big "L" word. I haven't told him I loved him back--but he isn't shy to tell me that he loves me and that he gets very upset when we don't talk for a few days in a row.
--The love seemed to come very quickly, but it didn't come right away--which people said was bad.
soooo I know that was very long and it probably isn't as detailed as you would like. If you want more details let me know--Other than that.....
I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE AND SOME HELP!!!!
Do I believe him? Are his actions genuine?
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