The other day I took my wife and kids to spend a couple of hours on the beach in Juan Dolio. We were sitting at one of the tables of a local beach restaurant and we were having a good time. The table next to ours was not occupied until a group of Dominican barrio women and their kids showed up. It was kind of strange since there were no men with them and it was quite a spectacle since they right away started to order their Presidente like they were rich folks even though they looked poor even for Dominican standards.
After about 5-10 minutes this foreigner shows up carrying bags with pots and pans full of food and giving it to the women, this guy was packed like a mule and none of the women helped him!!!!
The women finished their first beer and ordered more right away just for them not for the foreigner, he had to go back to the car in order to grab some more stuff.
Upon his return one of the kids asked him whether he was going for a swim which he didn?t understand. Trying to help him out I translated it for him into English, he thanked me and we started talking. It turned out to be that he was also German and that he came here to visit his girl who he met last year on vacation. He confided in me that he was in LOVE with this girl and that he wanted to marry her but he was still contemplating whether he should move to the DR or have his girl go to Germany, she wanted the latter.
He wanted to live here so he was asking me all kinds of questions.
Speaking fluently Spanish I had overheard some of the comments that the women had of him and they were not flattering, they were taking him for a ride.
This poor fellow thought he had found heaven on earth!!!
To make a long story short I spoke to my wife about this and I also mentioned to her that I was thinking about telling my countryman that he was being played but my wife said not to get involved, in life one always has to pay a price because nothing is for free.
What do you think I should have done?
After about 5-10 minutes this foreigner shows up carrying bags with pots and pans full of food and giving it to the women, this guy was packed like a mule and none of the women helped him!!!!
The women finished their first beer and ordered more right away just for them not for the foreigner, he had to go back to the car in order to grab some more stuff.
Upon his return one of the kids asked him whether he was going for a swim which he didn?t understand. Trying to help him out I translated it for him into English, he thanked me and we started talking. It turned out to be that he was also German and that he came here to visit his girl who he met last year on vacation. He confided in me that he was in LOVE with this girl and that he wanted to marry her but he was still contemplating whether he should move to the DR or have his girl go to Germany, she wanted the latter.
He wanted to live here so he was asking me all kinds of questions.
Speaking fluently Spanish I had overheard some of the comments that the women had of him and they were not flattering, they were taking him for a ride.
This poor fellow thought he had found heaven on earth!!!
To make a long story short I spoke to my wife about this and I also mentioned to her that I was thinking about telling my countryman that he was being played but my wife said not to get involved, in life one always has to pay a price because nothing is for free.
What do you think I should have done?