I am leaving this post and hoping that the Dominican men on DR1 can help me or offer some insights.
I am married to a Dominican man and we have been together for several years. Throughout this time we have had many ups and downs just like all couples do. The last few months have been particularly difficult for us but we have decided to stay together and try to make things work.
Lately, I do not feel close to him and find him distant. Each time I ask him what is wrong he says nothing and blames work. I think this is just his way of saying leave me alone. He does not have time to be with me and finds ways to get out of the house for long hours. Worst of all, he does not engage in any kind of intimacy with me. This hurts me because he was not like this before. He used to be very affectionate and we would spend a lot of time together. I have so many doubts in my head and I feel that he is hiding things from me. I wish things between us would just return to normal.
I am wondering if I should just continue to give him space and hope that things will get better or if I should just give up and leave. I love him very much but I do not know if he does because he does not show it. He has admitted that he is not good at showing his feelings but we had not problems with intimacy before. I am trying to be patient but it is very difficult since I do not see any improvements.
If you have any input or have experienced something similar with your husband please let me know. Thank you.
MB
I am married to a Dominican man and we have been together for several years. Throughout this time we have had many ups and downs just like all couples do. The last few months have been particularly difficult for us but we have decided to stay together and try to make things work.
Lately, I do not feel close to him and find him distant. Each time I ask him what is wrong he says nothing and blames work. I think this is just his way of saying leave me alone. He does not have time to be with me and finds ways to get out of the house for long hours. Worst of all, he does not engage in any kind of intimacy with me. This hurts me because he was not like this before. He used to be very affectionate and we would spend a lot of time together. I have so many doubts in my head and I feel that he is hiding things from me. I wish things between us would just return to normal.
I am wondering if I should just continue to give him space and hope that things will get better or if I should just give up and leave. I love him very much but I do not know if he does because he does not show it. He has admitted that he is not good at showing his feelings but we had not problems with intimacy before. I am trying to be patient but it is very difficult since I do not see any improvements.
If you have any input or have experienced something similar with your husband please let me know. Thank you.
MB