managing multiple girlfriends and living like a playboy

A myriad of cabanas all around the country serve this purpose - in SD go to Doce de Haina or Autopista San Isidro

No NonSense said:

how do you guys do it. come on. i know there are guys here that aren't 100% faithful to their wives or girlfriends and i want to know how you or dominicanos make such arrangements without anyone getting hurt and is it even doable?

Thanks

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I know of a few married or taken men who rent an apartment between the 3 of them in NY and share the rent . They all have their own bedrooms and phone. This is were they take their unsuspecting woman for fun.

When they are done, they go back to their lives.

Pathetic? Yes, but to each their own!!

no nonsense, you want to be a 'player' and you dont know how!!!! stick with one woman, you will never be in the 'major league'

Why have a serious girlfriend and then bits on the side, dont get that at all :ermm:

Just rent a house get a housekeeper to take care of all your domestic needs and then you can bring home a different dominicana whenever you want. I can see a logical reason to want a serious relationship aswell other than having someone to wash the lipstick off your collar!

Nothing wrong with being a Playboy but you cant have a serious girlfriend and be hugh hefenering it up and still expect no one to get hurt!

Then when you find someone you think maybe a keeper, you have sewn all your wild oats and can be a real man and go the distance without the need for all the messing about.

No one gets hurt that way

laurajane said:

Why have a serious girlfriend and then bits on the side, dont get that at all :ermm:

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Some of us do not like eating in the same restaurant all the time. lol

No, i meant just play around why add the serious girlfriend?

Just get a housekeeper or live with your mum ha ha!

Can still be a hot housekeeper

laurajane said:

Can still be a hot housekeeper

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With all the fringe benefits?

Hell yes. Where? Where? lol:cheeky:

laurajane said:

Can still be a hot housekeeper

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Then the house never gets cleaned, remember Seinfeld's housekeeper?

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OK...so you're a "player". If you are one then you know that eventually someone will find out and people are going to get hurt (that includes you and I don't necessarily mean just emotionally, but physically). If you're a player then you'd also know how to handle the situation when it arises.

You see the thing is in The DR a lot of the guys don't really care that much if the wife finds out...if she does then they know there will be fights for a while, but two things are very likely to happen (she wont leave him and she is not going to deny him sex)...This is unlike The US for example. Dominican women know and even expect that the guy is going to have something on the side (as a matter of fact I know women who don't respect guys who appear too devoted).

It is not unheard of for guys to have two, three, etc girls (even wives) in the same town. I know of a guy who has four wives in the same little town.

Dominican guys (well I think all guys) want to have a serious honest girl at home. Someone they can take to their mother, family functions, etc...but have something on the side for when it gets boring at home. This on the side girls are just that. You take her to a Cabana have your fun and part ways. You'd never be seen with her out and about town (thus the reason Cabanas are so popular in The DR).

These girls normally understand that even if we were together in a Cabana just this morning, if I'm with my serious wife / girlfriend you are not to approach me or talk to me if we bump into each other around town. We'll both act like we don't know each other.

If you have tons of girls you're better off renting an apartment as The Cabanas can get expensive.

a real player does not go on dr1 asking how to be a player in the dominican republic. If your a player your a player rather your in the dr, new york or kansas. Do you live in the dr now? Regardles of were you live i get a feeling your just gonna be anothe american- canadian player wannabe who is going to get played by these all-pro dominican chica players. You will probably have the one that you think is your girlfriend and fall in love with her, and then find out it was you who has been played. Dont take offense, it happens very often here.

Lol

I can tell you how they do it...Trust me the Dominicanas are muy celosa, But...the Dominican guys sock it to them in the bedroom like no other, so even when the girls catch them...they never leave. More than likely you will be the one getting played. They'll have their Dominicano who pays them weekly or daily visits, then serve your food and rub your back and cash your checks. Cuidado because likely if you get caught...there will be hell to pay (unless you just want to pay for it all together...then its fine). Hide all of the sharp and shiny object. Have fun & Be safe.

They do sock it pretty good!!

IslandPrincess said:

I can tell you how they do it...Trust me the Dominicanas are muy celosa, But...the Dominican guys sock it to them in the bedroom like no other, so even when the girls catch them...they never leave. More than likely you will be the one getting played. They'll have their Dominicano who pays them weekly or daily visits, then serve your food and rub your back and cash your checks. Cuidado because likely if you get caught...there will be hell to pay (unless you just want to pay for it all together...then its fine). Hide all of the sharp and shiny object. Have fun & Be safe.

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Very funny!!!!!!!

Its not needed, Its wanted...very different!

No NonSense said:

Some men want to have their cake and eat it darling. I am sure there are many men that have a serious girlfriend and have others on the side. sure it doesn't make sense to you but to some men its needed.

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I realize that, im not a dumbass or your darling, but you were asking of a way to have a serious girlfriend, bits on the side and how to do it without anyone getting hurt...

Aint possible!

And you will be played big time, And you will have to expect that your serious girlfriend will also be seeing other men behind your back. Yes many dominicanas are aware and expect their men to have casual sex behind their backs but many play the same game. As long as you are ok with that then go for it.

laurajane said:

And you will be played big time, And you will have to expect that your serious girlfriend will also be seeing other men behind your back. Yes many dominicanas are aware and expect their men to have casual sex behind their backs but many play the same game. As long as you are ok with that then go for it.

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Ojo que no ve, corazon que no siente!

You're gonna get played.
These Dominican side girls are professionals at what they do. One of them is gonna put it on you and have you speaking in tongues and then you'll be on the living section wanting to know how you can move to DR on a limited budget.
SHALENA

no better yet, you probobly will be on dr1 asking for advice on how to apply for that visa for that ddd (definately differant dominicana) that you want to bring back home and spend a fairytale life with. Sorry for the sarcasim, but just leting you know to not underestimate the power of deception that the dominican girls have learned to master over men. well at least over american and canadians that is.