Okay so I married a filipina. I didn't really think much about it until we were discussing where we would live when we retired. I assumed that I would always be moving back to Santo Dominigo, but she wants to move to the philippines:surprised. I have tried to be understanding as a mate, and tried to work with my wife on this one, but it doesn't seem that we will ever get passed this, so what should i do besides compromise cause this is really important to me? thanks for your replies.:squareeye