This is what JMB773 does not understand about many posters the claim they are busniess men and have mutiple degrees from some of the best schools in the world or KNOW someone who went to a very good school. You learn this in Economics 101 and Marketing 101. Okay tell me why the second the Dominicans that arrive in the USA CHANGE? Talk to a Dominican that have been living in NYC or Jersey for 10 yrs and see the difference. Dominicans do not put their family in those places in DR because there are none. I have been to some of those senior citizens communties and some are VERY NICE, but you have to have MONEY, and most Dominicans in the USA do not have the kind of money other Americans have.
Second alot of elderly Americans are TOUGH as NAILS and would punch their sons or daughters in the belly if they ever tried to take them out of their home which by the way is PAID FOR as well as their cars. Many seniors citizens want their independence all the time.
Thrid and this if for ALL the "GURUS" on DR1 that love statistics. Do me a favor and give me the ratio of all elderly Americans living in some "awful rest home" oppose to the ones living in their OWN home or with family or in one of those beautiful retirement communities. Then do a comparison the amount of "CAPITAL American senior citizens have oppose to Dominican senior citizens in DR and NYC. I would but the "Puerto Rican Parade" starts in 3 hours.
BTW Many senior citizens do not want to be a BURDEN on their families so they try to become "invisible" I think God should have made many of you Dominicans. Americans DO NOT want to be TAKEN CARE OFF, especially OUR senior citizens.
JMB773,
Yes, when Dominicans make it to the USA, we do change, but not in the way you are suggesting.
Jobs, opportunities and an education change us financially. This gives us the advantage of helping our families back home. I think we send billions of dollars in remittance every year, due to the financial transformation.
Taking care of the elder is a cultural thing that extends beyond Dominicans. Latin American countries and the Caribbean do the same. To this day, I remember hearing “You have to make something of yourself to help your parents”. When we make it, the first thing we do is to make sure our parents are okay. When I was growing up, the number one Dominican dream for boys was to educate yourself, to find a good job, to buy your mom a house.
Here in the states, I only know one Dominican family from back home that placed an elder woman in a nursing home after the lady developed Alzheimer. The son was forced by his wife. He didn’t have the backbone to resist her wife’s insistence that his mother needed to go.
Do all Dominicans take care of their elders? Yes, for the vast majority. We even help our siblings, uncles and nephews, for crying out loud; hence the billions in remittance. Of course, there are some SOB Dominicans that don’t care about their elder parents, but the percentage might be so minute that it doesn’t make the stats.
Elders, not just Americans, do not want to be a burden on their families.
The difference between elder Americans and Dominicans centers on the fact that there is something called Medicare, Medicaid and Social Security for Americans. As you know, this not a choice for Dominicans.
It would be ideal if one could exercise judgment and refrain from name calling and stereotypical comments.
You have been insisting that Dominicans do not have any money; that we blow our money in unaffordable expensive cars and then have nothing left to fall back on. Also, to add insult to injury you said something about Dominican being the most ghetto in the USA.
From previous posts, I gathered that you are Black (American) and Puerto Rican. I also noticed that you negate your Puerto Rican heritage. Okay, for all intend and purposes you are Black. You go on saying that Blacks are better (less ghetto and better off financially) than Dominicans in the USA.
This would only be true if (and only if) you are comparing ghetto Dominicans with Black celebrity. If that weren’t the case you would be way off. By the way, a 10K watch would not qualify you as a celebrity!
To do a fair comparison of the average Dominicans and Blacks anywhere in the planet, I exhort some research on your part. Please get acquainted with the Black American history. Get up to date with the currents events on the Black communities, and finally watch a few episodes of Maury Povich (Tamika, he is not the father!).
After you’ve done all these things, then you might be in a better position to compare and contrast Dominicans and Blacks.