Trainman I don't know you or your wife to be. I have been a member of this board a long time and am married to a Dominicana. I truly wish you the best in your marriage .
I have a prenuptial , I believe the term is (fair and councincuable) excuse spelling .
This basically means that you cant put things in a prenuptial like , ( I get everything , you get nothing , and when i say get out you must leave immediately.
You can NOT put things in a prenuptial that are illegal .
You may love your wife to be and her child very much as i do my step daughter . But she is not mine and not my responsibility should we divorce .
Child support is mandated by the courts for YOUR BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN , or adopted children . Do not put a clause in your prenuptial indicating child support . Salary's expenses change , it would be ill advised to agree to something that you have no way of knowing.
Alimony can be a set percentage for a specified period of time (2 two years) 17% not a dollar amount.
I would further recommend not commingling funds it muddy s the water as to what belonged to who before and during the marriage.
Your assets should remain separate .
Personal property should be addressed . Example her primary vehicle is hers , her personal property clothes , jewelry , family items passed down .
She should have her own lawyer represent her at the signing. You should get a receipt that she paid for this service herself. If not it spells problems in the future should a divorce actually occur.
As a side bar my wife had no problem signing a prenuptial , because it was pretty fair. And as she stated if I was after your money I just wouldn't sign.
Discuss the terms , agree to disagree without being disagreeably. And if you cant come to terms , put everything on hold or part ways .
You both deserve protection with today's divorce rates.
If your already married its to late to make changes . Its a prenuptial , pretty much guaranty it wont hold up if changed after marriage.
I AM NO LAWYER , BUT DID MY HOMEWORK AND HAD A GOOD LAWYER , WHO WOULD NOT TOUCH A PRENUPTIAL THAT SHE THOUGHT COULD BE CHALLENGED.
Once again best of luck if you think there is something I can help you with PM me .
I have a prenuptial , I believe the term is (fair and councincuable) excuse spelling .
This basically means that you cant put things in a prenuptial like , ( I get everything , you get nothing , and when i say get out you must leave immediately.
You can NOT put things in a prenuptial that are illegal .
You may love your wife to be and her child very much as i do my step daughter . But she is not mine and not my responsibility should we divorce .
Child support is mandated by the courts for YOUR BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN , or adopted children . Do not put a clause in your prenuptial indicating child support . Salary's expenses change , it would be ill advised to agree to something that you have no way of knowing.
Alimony can be a set percentage for a specified period of time (2 two years) 17% not a dollar amount.
I would further recommend not commingling funds it muddy s the water as to what belonged to who before and during the marriage.
Your assets should remain separate .
Personal property should be addressed . Example her primary vehicle is hers , her personal property clothes , jewelry , family items passed down .
She should have her own lawyer represent her at the signing. You should get a receipt that she paid for this service herself. If not it spells problems in the future should a divorce actually occur.
As a side bar my wife had no problem signing a prenuptial , because it was pretty fair. And as she stated if I was after your money I just wouldn't sign.
Discuss the terms , agree to disagree without being disagreeably. And if you cant come to terms , put everything on hold or part ways .
You both deserve protection with today's divorce rates.
If your already married its to late to make changes . Its a prenuptial , pretty much guaranty it wont hold up if changed after marriage.
I AM NO LAWYER , BUT DID MY HOMEWORK AND HAD A GOOD LAWYER , WHO WOULD NOT TOUCH A PRENUPTIAL THAT SHE THOUGHT COULD BE CHALLENGED.
Once again best of luck if you think there is something I can help you with PM me .