Yes, and I take back everything I said about your san....., I mean, lady friend. She's a catch. Better wife that girl before you run out of mon...., uh, I mean good looks.
SHALENA
Lol this is why I like u
Yes, and I take back everything I said about your san....., I mean, lady friend. She's a catch. Better wife that girl before you run out of mon...., uh, I mean good looks.
SHALENA
i could not even be bothered to read the first post. bored out of my head - i have seen the same story told million times over, always with the same "different than all the others's" attitude. nothing about this story is different from what was here before: met on holidays, talk every day, he no ask me for nothing, blah blah.
a woman who is sure of her man, sure of her love and sure of herself does not have to ask strangers for advice on her life. if you think this is IT - have a go at, girl. if you have doubts - forget it and move on. HB's rules are not 100% foolproof but they are a good start in judging the chances of a relationship.
i will only tell you one thing: do not invest any money or material goods on this relationship. broken hearts heal much easier than crashed credit score.
ps, when it's worth it it's worth it. but when it's not worth it it's really, really badly NOT worth it....
I want to know what the hell mountainanne means by saying "Black women even American are not the most desirable mates for middle and upper class"
"I think MountainAnnie's post is pretty much on target. There ARE good Dominicans out there, but sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince."
<<<< this was really funny
He works in carpentry in Santo Domingo. When hes at work during the week he lives with his older sister and brother, and on the weekends he has a house in Andres where he stays by himself.
I have visited his home there. Its not much, but he makes it work for him. Its not in a safe neighborhood (TRUST me I had to se this for myself to understand) so when he can he stays with his brother and sister during the week when hes in Santo Domingo at work.
He hasn't asked for anything, just to be able to talk to me more, which is difficult because I am very busy with school and work but I know that being able to talk is something that he really looks forward to because work is so stressful for him. And no phone calls. Syppe via webcam and Facebook chat because its free and neither of us has the money to pay for phone calls.
The only thing is, he spends about 100 pesos a day when he goes to the internet cafe and when he doesn't we have a mutual friend who has sometimes has reliable internet that he will use but most of the time, hes paying 50 pesos per hour....and since he likes to talk twice a day, it adds up. 700 pesos by the end of the week..I dont even want to think about the cost at the end of the month...but he insists that he will do anything just to talk to me. Since wifi is free for me, I know hes contributing a lot when he already doesn't have much. Hes never asked for a thing. Hes actually refused anything I tried to give him during my stay this spring. I dont offer anything now because I learned it kinda offends him, and hes never asked. If he keeps it up until August I think I'll be able to see just how much he really wants this since hes been willing to pay everyday or go all the way to our friends home (and pay for gas, or transportation to get there) just to talk to me. and lol...
btw...lol kissing frogs is probably my least favorite thing to do.
I want to know what the hell mountainanne means by saying "Black women even American are not the most desirable mates for middle and upper class"
It's been some time since I've used and internet cafe but RD50 an hour sounds way off. Unless someone can corroborate this I think this should be a red flag that he has already started exaggerating.
Just remember the real players are willing do do what it takes to land the prize - marry the victim. By then of course it is too late.
I was going to reply to that and say something that they would expect to come from me but I only left it alone because like I said before, I'm not trying to let nobody run up my blood pressure this year. Apparently, she doesn't know to many middle or upper class Dominicans.
SHALENA
Got summer hatin' on me cuz I'm hotter than the sun
Got spring hatin' on me cuz I ain't never sprung
Winter hatin' on me cuz I'm colder than y'all
And I will never, I will never, I will never fall
I'm being hated by the seasons....
So f*ck y'all, hatin' for no reason
(Thats for me and my black sistas out there)
I HAD TO PAY 50 pesos myself...lol.. It might have been because at the time I was in Boca Chica to go to the beach and they PREY on tourists.