Look, I can't provide my credentials here, because every time I do....my posts get edited. I don't post my creds to brag, as I am a rather modest man, but I post them to provide an air of legitimacy as to what I am trying to say within the concept of an adult conversation within this forum.
With that said,
This afternoon I had this conversation with a friend of mind. Him...Dominican by birth, residing in another country I won't/can't mention here. Under contract for a profession that is directly related to this thread. Me? Well I'm SanPedroGringo.....why? because I'm a gringo in San Pedro de Macoris. Novel idea huh?
Unfortunately, this may be a cycle or pattern that is nowhere near coming to a close soon. Why? In my friend's opinion, most of these ballplayers grow up in very extreme, poverty ridden conditions. Anybody with any time here in the DR can understand this. Their only goal is to become a baseball player. Usually lacking male responsibility/support within their family...a father, a grandfather, an uncle, there is no male influence in the family to act as an advisor to the young man/men. A male counterpart who can share life experiences with him. They sign a professional baseball contract at the age of 16. They are now the richest person in the history of their family. Open up all the closed doors. Extended family. Friends they never knew they had. Women. Women. Women. And for anybody that was ever between the ages of 18-22, you know what is the number one thing on your mind. Hell, reading these forums, it continues on into your 30's-40's-50's-60's and beyond. Stay on topic. These young men progress in life, as young rich men, and want to "live the life". Live the life, that not only is NOT the norm here in the DR, but in most of the world. God bless them for the opportunity.....BUT................
And yes, that is a long but. What comes with it? These young men lack the experience, discipline, and responsibility to progress in life. They take their bonus money and buy some jacked up super vehicle, that is pretty impressive by US and European standards, but is a space shuttle here in the DR. With the roads here? Throw in the ultimate demon of alcohol......(hold on now, yes, I drink, but I don't drink and drive), alcohol/super charged vehicle/young man without experience/poor roads/maybe weather factors as well.....add in anything else you want to, but yes, sadly....it's a recipe for DISASTER. Nothing more/nothing less. If there was ever a time that any post of mine does not get deleted, I ask the mods to let it be this one. It took me a fair amount of time to type the truth. The truth as discussed between a SanPedroGringo and a Dominican born person who works abroad....and participates in the same profession as the two young men who lost their lives last night.