NYC_Boricua said:Hi. I am new to this forum but I came here because I was trying to learn more about this new Domincan guy that I just started dating. I have to tell you that I am a boricua/white mix from New York and to be honest I have only ever dated Puerto Ricans, so this new guy is the first Domincan I have ever been with. While I know that our heritages share some similiarities I came here searching for more insite into his culture in order to gain understanding. I have to admit that the first post on this thread has me worried now. Because I have been so stuck on men from PR I wasnt aware that Domincan men were known for cheating etc. In trying to stick somewhat to the topic I will say that he attracted me with his sweetness, kind words, the lustful ways he looks and me and he is a darn good kisser (havent made love yet so I cant speak to that yet). I could also add that it was first a physical attraction as well as he is very good looking (in all honesty his skin tone made him look Puerto Rican which is how he caught my eye to begin with).
That said, does anyone have any advice on how I could quickly figure out if this guy will have that propensity for cheating? Or maybe if he already has a wife even? Now I have straight out asked him but he says no wife no gf (he did say he has an ex wife). Of couse if men from DR are as some have indicated he wouldnt tell me about a wife anyway.
Some background, he moved from DR to NYC at age 8 so fairly americanized I would say, also we met at work so he has a good job (YAY!!). Anyway since this is my first Domincan any words of wisdom are appreciated.
If he is in the US from the age of 8 and does not travel to DR often this might be a different story. Try to find out more about him. A lot of men are single "at heart" and have wives and children in reality. Of course, if you like him, what does it matter? Just enjoy yourself while it lasts!