Yes, I was actually referring to the word felizmente, and it's current usage.
The sad state of affairs regarding traditional courtesies in modern global society is more than troublesome as well. I have experienced the "no response at all" in various global corners, and I will keep repeating my end of the courtesy until the message is received, and a proper response is reciprocated.
I still hear
felizmente a lot and predominantly from people of one Latin country. Levels of courtesy and the expected social norms and niceties varies quite a bit. In general, without singling out any country, I find South America especially the Northern countries still have a noticeable level of social courtesy or the expectation compared to the very relaxed and to a certain extent very informal Caribbean Antilles.
People’s mannerisms align with their culture and upbringing. Courtesy and politeness are highly valued in Latin culture and the Spanish language has ample variations and options to convey politeness. Even when you want say
no without sounding impolite there are ways. English unfortunately is not a model anymore because it’s a
lingua franca and it so disappointing to hear how the language is spoken by many whose first language is not English. What was once respected has now been lost.
Regarding the no response to a
thank you or
gracias I don’t let it bother me. I just make a mental note and it shows that person’s
incultura aka falta de educación.