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Yeah, both of them. Hahahahaha.
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Do Dominican women make good wives?
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Yeah, both of them. Hahahahaha.
I never gave to impress or to make up for something. I gave because I wanted her to be happy and as comfortable as possible. My good nature was taken advantage of.
As for looking for a trophy, not interested. I know to stay in my league and she was. Quite average as girls down there go. Eleven years younger, not twenty.
It all added up, until we factor in the pathological lying.
As for looking for a trophy, not interested. I know to stay in my league and she was. Quite average as girls down there go. Eleven years younger, not twenty.
It all added up, until we factor in the pathological lying.
Darn it dude! What were you thinking? Aim higher! You could have got all of that here in the states! Plus your windshield busted and your tires slashed!
Tell me what is the advantage of being young as you put it son? It certainly isn't assets, bank account, Intelligence or wisdom.
Other than assuming, how would you know?
If you need me to explain the advantage of being young, you just crossed yourself out of having 2 of 4 on that list of yours, pops.
You are not understanding what I'm trying to say. Let me give you an example a friend of mine played football for the University of Illinos in the 90's, he had a bad injury in practice so he was enable to continue football, but a lot of his friends made it Kevin Hardy, Robert Holcombe, Simeon Rice just to name a few. Every Kevin Hardy would through a party in his home in Jacksonville FL for his friends. The party was filled with women either a 9 or a 10, if you were a average woman you were not at this party. If you were not a athlete or a rapper or actor you had no chance with this women. My point in the States if a woman is looking for a meal ticket she will tell you that. If you have NO SHOT with a beautiful woman from NYC, Chicago, LA, Atlanta, DC, Miami the women will tell you this before you open your mouth" sorry but you have NO SHOT with me".
Everyman can spot a GOLD DIGGER because in 2012 they do not have to hide this anymore. High end gold diggers let it be known upfront they will tell you" I am looking for a man to take care of me"
Even if you met the "barrio chica" in the states she will tell you" Look baby if you take me shopping we can mess around, but it is NO CHANCE in HELL I will marry you OK. Even the so called low class women are up front with everything Air Jordans shoes for my time.
Dominicans NO NO NO!!!! I need money for:
My mother is sick
I need money to buy a card to call you
I need medicine
I lost my celular
I just got robbed
An American woman will call you on the phone and say" Come take me SHOPPING, my son want the new Derrick Rose Adidas. Dominican women will never say this is because they think you have to scheme and LIE for everything.
One more thing I forgot because it was so long ago, my aunt who was around 28 or something lived with a old Polish guy in the mid 80's. In 12 years living with the guy she never told him that she loved him, but he would always tell her. He asked her like a 1000 times to marry him, and my aunt would always say no, so then once he could not get her to marry him he ask about kids, not a chance. My aunt never worked while with him and she always had money, and his car more then he had it. Some nights she would spend with her ex husband, and the old polish what know exactly where she was at.
When I was around my aunt con mi tio I would always feel bad for the old polish guy and thought mi tia es una MENTIROSA
After years past and the old guy died I ask my mother why is tia a Liar? Why did she just USE the Polish guy? My mother said to me something I will never forget;
"Your father sister is the most HONEST person I've ever met" HUHHH!!! I said, " she never lied to him he knew exactly how she felt about him, and he knew she will always love her ex husband more then anyone on the planet. Well why did she stay with the polish guy I asked? Plain & Simple he took care of her.
If my aunt was Dominican and not Puerto Rican do some of you think my mother would have said the same thing? I think NOT. Dominicans are nice people ,but they LIE too much.
When I was around my aunt con mi tio I would always feel bad for the old polish guy and thought mi tia es una MENTIROSA
After years past and the old guy died I ask my mother why is tia a Liar? Why did she just USE the Polish guy? My mother said to me something I will never forget;
"Your father sister is the most HONEST person I've ever met" HUHHH!!! I said, " she never lied to him he knew exactly how she felt about him, and he knew she will always love her ex husband more then anyone on the planet. Well why did she stay with the polish guy I asked? Plain & Simple he took care of her.
If my aunt was Dominican and not Puerto Rican do some of you think my mother would have said the same thing? I think NOT. Dominicans are nice people ,but they LIE too much.
Go ahead dude. Maybe at my age I do need the explanation. To me its called clarity. I'll take my chances with the list. Will you take yours? Please tell me young fella.
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Ever since thy were babys thy had to lie dady had $ 10 if she asked for a doll he said no and went and bought a beer. So she better come up with some reall good Bull s and fast befor he spends all he has on beer . She well never ever think that someone well give her something . Look lying is out of fear of what thy procive your responce well be to the sisuation .Thy asume you well be mad, or thy well not get what thy want . Lets say i aske her to go to the stor to get some milk , the store has 5 kinds she cant figerout what kind i want or even beatter she forgot what kind i wanted . So now she rembers last time something like this happend i was acthuley a very nice man and told her to make a list and showed her how to do it . So this time she dos not want to here my BS about the list agane . So here come lying,simple /elabrit be it what it may . Fear based minulapithion of reality we lirned this as teenagers thy just never out grue it ... Thy dont know any other way .
This is it. This is where it starts. Dad wouldn't let them hang with their friends, so they learn to lie. And they get good at it. Really good. Dad's cheap and won't give mom money to buy new panties because his girl on the side needs some or he spent it on Brugal or on los gallos so she lies about what she spent on the compra to get a little out of him. Etc., etc., etc. This is stuff we can't comprehend because we never saw it with our parents.
Gringo comes along. 10 to 20 years older. You're her new daddy. You will be lied to. At every turn. Especially if you're placing demands upon her, like encouraging her to be a better person.
I have NEVER hit the "LIKE BUTTON" as many times in my "DR1Life",as I have on this thread!
God you're all GOOD!
"Yatcheffe".
I can't speel either,but I can come closer than you do!
PLEZE,get a "SPEEL Chuker",you are giving me a hedake!
CC
God you're all GOOD!
"Yatcheffe".
I can't speel either,but I can come closer than you do!
PLEZE,get a "SPEEL Chuker",you are giving me a hedake!
CC
Sure is. One of the most the most brutal import a wife situations I have ever seen was the 25 year old brother of a friend of mine. Messed the kid up for a long time. And get this, he was Latino. Naturalized Colombian American who imported a Cuban woman to the States.
Cris, I hate misspelled posts too. It is especially bothersome to me because I want to grab a red pencil and mark all the errors (too many years in the classroom, lol). However, I believe that Yacht Chef has stated on here before that he is dyslexic. That changes things a lot IMO.
A few questions-
1) If you have gold diggers in the US and gold diggers in the DR, why are guys who travel to the DR who want to date women "out of their league" demonized as losers?
2) Why is a woman who looks for the morally bankrupt, easy way out by selling the vaporware of sex and love with a young, beautiful woman to an unattractive man with money not seen as just as big a loser as the losers who throw money at their feet for the pleasure of their company?
3) I would also like an explanation of what "out of one's league" means. I don't think one is purchasing a better caliber of human being if one engages in this type of activity. I just see it as you're purchasing a better-looking, higher maintenance young lady who, regardless of what you do for her will never love you. Whether it's nails and hair money for a barrio slut or a jeepeta and an apartment on the Malecon for a high-class whore, what is the difference?
4) If a shallow woman is one's life's desire, does that not make a man who chase such types just as shallow?
I ask these questions so we can get away from the same boilerplate responses that get repeated on this topic that don't really get us away from the same stereotypes people wind up taking as fact.
Too many questions in one post, I know. Feel free to take them on one at a time. I would love to hear the responses.
1) If you have gold diggers in the US and gold diggers in the DR, why are guys who travel to the DR who want to date women "out of their league" demonized as losers?
2) Why is a woman who looks for the morally bankrupt, easy way out by selling the vaporware of sex and love with a young, beautiful woman to an unattractive man with money not seen as just as big a loser as the losers who throw money at their feet for the pleasure of their company?
3) I would also like an explanation of what "out of one's league" means. I don't think one is purchasing a better caliber of human being if one engages in this type of activity. I just see it as you're purchasing a better-looking, higher maintenance young lady who, regardless of what you do for her will never love you. Whether it's nails and hair money for a barrio slut or a jeepeta and an apartment on the Malecon for a high-class whore, what is the difference?
4) If a shallow woman is one's life's desire, does that not make a man who chase such types just as shallow?
I ask these questions so we can get away from the same boilerplate responses that get repeated on this topic that don't really get us away from the same stereotypes people wind up taking as fact.
Too many questions in one post, I know. Feel free to take them on one at a time. I would love to hear the responses.
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