For me
I would say "good luck and best wishes, she's lovely! At least she has a guy who will (most probably) not cheat on her, take care of her and maybe her family and treat her with respect. Lots better than she is likely to find from the average Dominican tigre. He will pass on before her and hopefully leave her taken care of financially. Not a bad deal overall for the both of them. He gets his trophy wife and she gets financial security. Would she be better off with a poor Dominican guy her own age? I'd say she is lots better off than she was without her new abuelo.
I would say "good luck and best wishes, she's lovely! At least she has a guy who will (most probably) not cheat on her, take care of her and maybe her family and treat her with respect. Lots better than she is likely to find from the average Dominican tigre. He will pass on before her and hopefully leave her taken care of financially. Not a bad deal overall for the both of them. He gets his trophy wife and she gets financial security. Would she be better off with a poor Dominican guy her own age? I'd say she is lots better off than she was without her new abuelo.