I am not new to the DR1 forums. I have heard all the various ways some Dominicans take advantage of various tourists and foreigners (and vice-verse). I do not need a lecture from any of you because I can give it to myself. But I am having a moment of weakness and could use some basic advice.
My friend (Dominican male, 27, out of work for months, not married) just had his first baby. I have known about the baby's pending arrival for months. It was a girl born September 11, 2011. My friend texted me about the birth and I sent him $100 US as a gift for this special day.
Today I received another text from my friend. The baby is sick and needs medicine. I believe that Dominicans receive universal health care. I have also heard that medicine isn't always covered. I told my friend that I cannot help him (although I can; but I am suspicious from reading all the postings on this site and other places). Now guilt is eating at my soul. I have the means to help a baby but I am not.
Now that you know the background and the situation, what advice can you offer? Am I right not to interfere? Am I wrong not to help a baby when I have the means to do so? What is the Dominican health care system and does the baby receive the medicine she deserves? Those who know the country please help.
Thanks
My friend (Dominican male, 27, out of work for months, not married) just had his first baby. I have known about the baby's pending arrival for months. It was a girl born September 11, 2011. My friend texted me about the birth and I sent him $100 US as a gift for this special day.
Today I received another text from my friend. The baby is sick and needs medicine. I believe that Dominicans receive universal health care. I have also heard that medicine isn't always covered. I told my friend that I cannot help him (although I can; but I am suspicious from reading all the postings on this site and other places). Now guilt is eating at my soul. I have the means to help a baby but I am not.
Now that you know the background and the situation, what advice can you offer? Am I right not to interfere? Am I wrong not to help a baby when I have the means to do so? What is the Dominican health care system and does the baby receive the medicine she deserves? Those who know the country please help.
Thanks