Re: Try to convince me that what I'm doing is wron
Hey Justin:
I found myself in the same situation several months ago. The women down there are very nice and all but I really think you can find the same quality women in your hometown. When you go to the D.R. you become enchanted. "Hit by a very powerful
spell," we tend to forget who we are. Before you went to the D.R. you had goals and you were focus. The D.R. is an interruption . A very beautiful interruption but nevertheless an interruption. Yes,if the women are on your same level, by all means get involved, but if don't have much in common except warm kisses, smiles, touchy-touchies then let it go my friend because you can get that anywhere. If you guys have common goals and/ or something you both have in common for example, a religion or an occupation, than you can build on a serious relationship. Other than that just call it for what it really is, " a fun relationship", or just " fooling around with a pretty girl," that may end any day. As long as you understand that you will be just fine. Try to turn it into something that you really don't want to and you will pay a terrible price. For example,pain , frustration, unwanted pregnancy, and broken dreams. Everybody suffers and everybody loses. All the fun goes out of the window.
Be careful
Donald