Okay..... First of all, I asked a valid question about a valid concern and I deserve a real answer from someone if they know it, not this childish bs from people who still have have the mental capacity of a 12 year old. Second, you have no basis from which to make the snide remarks that you do towards me; you don't know me, my situation, or background. I am not one of these idiot females that goes on vacation, meets some low class nobody and screws them or "falls" in love with them; I wouldn't do it at home and sure the hell wouldn't do it anyplace else. To me, trash is trash and it looks like I ran across some on here.... Third, I don't care who you think you are or how important you believe you are in your make-believe world, it does not give you the right to disrespect anyone on here. Pull your head out of your ass and stop thinking that you are all of that because you're not. Fourth, I don't see what the hell your comments even have to do with my question, the sankie one or claiming that I think I'm an "expert" because I was there for a week. Really? Did you ever stop to think that maybe my friend is someone that I knew BEFORE I came to the DR and that maybe I really am just concerned about him.....or that maybe(gasp) he not some sankie? Of course not, that's too much like work and it's just easier to jump to baseless, irrelavent conclusions. And lastly, if you can't contribute anything meaningful to threads that I post, stfu and stay off of them.