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    Default Can I find A Dominican Man?

    Ever since middle school I have had a thing for Spanish men in general but a serious attraction to Dominican men specifically. I am a Black dark skinned feminine gay man, I say that because I know most Dominican men are somewhat homophobic and generally don't go for black or dark, so I think the chances of me ever getting with one are small but I am still determined to find one, though its kinda hard. I also know that there are not a lot of openly gay Dominican men and the ones who are gay or at least mess around with men are closeted. I was thinking of learning Spanish, to cook Dominican food & all about the culture of the DR and maybe moving to Washington Heights in search of Dominican men.

    I was wondering if any one could tell me what they think of my situation and what the odds are of some one of my demographic finding a Dominican man & some tips on what I should do and how i should go about my journey? Are there clubs in NYC I should hit up or places I should go?

    p.s I don't live in NYC/ I live in Boston but I got to NYC a lot and I know there are a lot of DM out there.
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    Are you hot?

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    @ Jeff: tsk, tsk.

    @ dboy: Why go to NYC? There are plenty of Dominicans in MA/Boston area.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlterEgo View Post
    @ Jeff: tsk, tsk.
    It's still valid, however you present it.

    1. It has been my experience that if you describe yourself as feminine, then chances are your version of feminine is off the charts from the average. Consider this.

    2. Do you want a Dominican boyfriend or a Dominican man to **** you? The first could be hard to get, the second should be a snap.

    3. I would imagine your chances are marginally better that you are in the USA. Remember you may find a guy that could "hide" you. This means he'll likely live alone. Personally, I wouldn't expect a lot of socializing with your new man.

    4. I'm sure this is a preconception about "Black" people with newly emigrated Dominicans, which may be something to keep in mind.

    All in all, science gives you a 67.4% chance of finding true love and a 100% chance of getting boned.

    Excuse my language. Peace and love.
    Last edited by AlterEgo; 05-16-2011 at 08:06 PM. Reason: Removed link

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    But wasn't my link actually helpful? It's called "The Gay Guide to the DR". Don't you think it includes insight into what he needs to know? Or maybe I missed something else?

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    Dominican men arent Spanish

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    where can i find this gay guide to Dr and wheres the link and tell me more

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrhartley View Post
    Dominican men arent Spanish
    what would you call them then because i know about drs history with blackness and i dont want to offend anyone so i try to stay within my boundaries

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    dominicans may be a good start lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by EverythingJeff View Post
    a 100% chance of getting boned.
    Isn't that why you're coming to the DR?

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