Ever since middle school I have had a thing for Spanish men in general but a serious attraction to Dominican men specifically. I am a Black dark skinned feminine gay man, I say that because I know most Dominican men are somewhat homophobic and generally don't go for black or dark, so I think the chances of me ever getting with one are small but I am still determined to find one, though its kinda hard. I also know that there are not a lot of openly gay Dominican men and the ones who are gay or at least mess around with men are closeted. I was thinking of learning Spanish, to cook Dominican food & all about the culture of the DR and maybe moving to Washington Heights in search of Dominican men.
I was wondering if any one could tell me what they think of my situation and what the odds are of some one of my demographic finding a Dominican man & some tips on what I should do and how i should go about my journey? Are there clubs in NYC I should hit up or places I should go?
p.s I don't live in NYC/ I live in Boston but I got to NYC a lot and I know there are a lot of DM out there.
I was wondering if any one could tell me what they think of my situation and what the odds are of some one of my demographic finding a Dominican man & some tips on what I should do and how i should go about my journey? Are there clubs in NYC I should hit up or places I should go?
p.s I don't live in NYC/ I live in Boston but I got to NYC a lot and I know there are a lot of DM out there.
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