What kind of gifts to bring?

mamgirl

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I have read different things on various sites about giving gifts versus money, and I wanted to get some opinions from you fine folks.

What are some good ideas of things to leave for the housekeeping, or to give to the bar staff, entertainment team, etc. Or would they just prefer cash? Is there something that's popular to bring from Canada?

Thanks for your help!
 

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when i go down i bring different types of toiletries for housekeepers plus leave a couple of dollars each day as well. i usually find out if they have children and go to dollar store here and take some supplies of writing books, crayons, balls, baseball canadian caps etc. they are all really cheap and around Canada`s birthday there is a ton of stuff in the store to take. if you can get your hands on bluejays baseball caps in good condition like from the thrift shops, i give to the waiters, etc. Boston caps are really popular too, that i have found. you didn`t say where you are from, but you get the idea.

i usually pack 1 whole suitcase full of all kinds of stuff. Im sure you will get lots of ideas here.
 

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Cash is the best. But I do take chocolate to the people on the animation team. However, since I go to the same resort all the time, they are more like my friends than anything else.
 

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When I have stayed at an AI, I always get the full name of the ladies who do my room and then I leave my full sized shampoos, conditioners, body lotions, toothpaste, NEW toothbrushes, plus new unopened items, etc with a note with their full name saying I am giving the items to them. Most staff are searched when they leave the resort at the end of the day and if they don't have a note with their name on it, the items can be confiscated and they can be accused of stealing.

Ella
 

Givadogahome

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My mother in laws sister works in Punta Cana, housekeeping and goes away every few days with bags full of shampoo, perfume, soap, shaving foam, beach towels and unwanted and unused clothes, the last thing housekeeping want is more shampoos and perfumes, believe me, they can't even sell them as most live in the same vicinity and all do the same jobs and so have a lovely smelling barrio but little money to take home on days off, they would prefer cash to try and save for a significant something some day like a motorbike or car.
I get some lovely smellies every time I see her like the rest of the family, so thanks guys, but all the families vanity cupboards are full now!:knockedou
 

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the gifts... anything from toiletries to school supplies are nice thoughts and well intentioned, but money is best. easy to carry, more appreciated, and definitely NEEDED MORE.

I just can't seem to understand why so many people are hung up on this gift giving thing....
 

Givadogahome

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I've never understood it. I think for the most part it is naivety, not knowing where they are going, read about poverty levels and automatically relate poverty to televised African drought and such things. Most in the first instance have no idea everything they can bring is available to everyone and usually cheaper than home, so the thought is a lovely one and always appreciated without doubt, no one will ever refuse anything, a something is better than a nothing.
But like you I am stumped why repeat visitors continue to bring stuff, maybe it is a sign of how often they leave the resorts to visit real towns or cities, or maybe they just like giving gifts rather than cold cash, it's puzzling and always has been.
But when asked a direct question of which is preferred then the answer is without any doubt at all, CASH, like Tambo said it is really is that simple.
Even if a member of staff leaves work with a few hundred pesos each day, it is better than all the baseball caps, colouring books and crayons you could ever bring as it feeds them, day to day, it takes care of living costs while on the coast working away so that the entire salary can be taken back to the family home in the city to provide for the kids and needing family there. Specifically housekeeping and gardeners who seem to get forgotten about when money is passed.
A cousin works a hotel bar in Bavaro and pockets about RD40,000 per month on top of RD5,000 salary, he's got the smile the jive talk, the late night last punter pity banter to the overly drunken leaving tomorrow pity forsaken tourist with a few bucks left over down to an art. Barman in a Punta Cana Hotel is a great job
 

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I've never understood it. I think for the most part it is naivety, not knowing where they are going, read about poverty levels and automatically relate poverty to televised African drought and such things. Most in the first instance have no idea everything they can bring is available to everyone and usually cheaper than home, so the thought is a lovely one and always appreciated without doubt, no one will ever refuse anything, a something is better than a nothing.
But like you I am stumped why repeat visitors continue to bring stuff, maybe it is a sign of how often they leave the resorts to visit real towns or cities, or maybe they just like giving gifts rather than cold cash, it's puzzling and always has been.
But when asked a direct question of which is preferred then the answer is without any doubt at all, CASH, like Tambo said it is really is that simple.
Even if a member of staff leaves work with a few hundred pesos each day, it is better than all the baseball caps, colouring books and crayons you could ever bring as it feeds them, day to day, it takes care of living costs while on the coast working away so that the entire salary can be taken back to the family home in the city to provide for the kids and needing family there. Specifically housekeeping and gardeners who seem to get forgotten about when money is passed.
A cousin works a hotel bar in Bavaro and pockets about RD40,000 per month on top of RD5,000 salary, he's got the smile the jive talk, the late night last punter pity banter to the overly drunken leaving tomorrow pity forsaken tourist with a few bucks left over down to an art. Barman in a Punta Cana Hotel is a great job


Finally, you said something I 100% totally agree with....good job dogahome, I mean....(ok I won't go there)

CASH IS THE BETTER OPTION.....

If you bring some toothbrushes, or coloring books, or toilet paper, or toothpicks, or pencils, or socks, or 8 tracks, or cassettes......or anything that was bought in a DOLLAR store from the USA.......

Well, they might look at you and smile and say thanx, but behind your back, my guess would be, YOU CHEAP BASTARD.......


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EllaTO

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Sorry, perhaps I was unclear... I also tip very well in cash... it is interesting to know that, while I do not and never have shopped at a dollar store, leaving high quality toiletries is unwanted...

The things I am learning here...

Ella
 

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Always cash.. Now I have been to a certain resort quite a few times in Punta Cana and have given a gift to some, such as the last time I went I gave a small Coach wallet ( cheap at the outlets in the US) to the girl at the club that always takes care of me and my family but honestly cash is king. I can not imagine how much body wash, shampoo etc...they get. I also have left a written note with the persons name etc.. since yes they are subject to search prior to leaving the resort. But after talking with quite a few resort workers they all agree cash is the best.
 

Givadogahome

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leaving high quality toiletries is unwanted...
Ella

Unwanted is not what anyone is saying, not needed to the extent they recieve possibly. The big error in your post is the presumption that 'high quality' is something that registers, it doesn't. Unless you are talking Nike Jordans.
Post pregnancy cream is like gold dust and so if you take that you will be popular, and that WILL be very much appreciated.
 

mamgirl

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I am really glad I asked this question...this is a great discussion. I guess my feeling was that money seemed not as personal and gifts more caring. But after reading these comments it makes sense that money is preferred. And it will make it much easier than me trying to decide what to buy. I may still bring chocolates as a bonus.
 
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I am really glad I asked this question...this is a great discussion. I guess my feeling was that money seemed not as personal and gifts more caring. But after reading these comments it makes sense that money is preferred. And it will make it much easier than me trying to decide what to buy. I may still bring chocolates as a bonus.

I agree with you. The problem is unless you know the person how can you know what is an appropriate gift. Tips are the way to go but that doesn;t mean that you should follow American tipping customs in the DR. For a real insight check the post in the forums of Tripadvisor.
 

young seniors

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I have read different things on various sites about giving gifts versus money, and I wanted to get some opinions from you fine folks.

What are some good ideas of things to leave for the housekeeping, or to give to the bar staff, entertainment team, etc. Or would they just prefer cash? Is there something that's popular to bring from Canada?



Thanks for your help!

Leaving cash is good, but if you don`t want to do that then find out what is needed and most expensive for them to buy in dr. im kind of mixed on passing money around, and would really would rather spend the time buying items that they can either not readily get or are too expensive to buy. just find that more personal.