Ladies, Gentlemen of DR1
Well, I'm really conflicted about a situation. It's about a Chica
Over the years I can safely say that when it comes to sankettes, I'm a tiguere. I've been schooled by some of the best threads and articles here on DR1.
But as we all know, there's going to be that "one" that you just can't let go of. To begin, I will explain how I found myself in this situation.
This stems from my first sankette, she was a hot barrio rat with green eyes from Mamayes that nearly bamboozled me into marrying her. Luckily for me when I decided to jump in head first, I did a few google searches, and showed unannounced a couple of times. So it was an easy decision to get rid of her.
Since then, I decided that every time I make to the DR, I'll hook up with random chicas, just have fun hangout, burn a few thousand pesos, say adios and hop back on JetBlue to reality. Well the first few times, everything worked out, I was able to cash in a few favors etc... I met Miss X during one of those trips. But left it at that, I would invite her to dinner usually on my last day before I head out, and we kept it at that. But my last few trips, I could never find anyone available, and always end up killing most of the time with her.
This time, she's 37 but really looks 30, never married, no kids, lives with her parents has a little business peddling cosmetics. She graduated from one of the local Universities; did I mention a body to die for? She has some really good qualities, and is really good with her money, has a bank account and credit in her name. She drives and is like they say in the DR "tranquila"; as far as I know.
My plan is to not go out and do something crazy, It's just that whenever I'm with a chica, I always have the "end" in mind, whether it's just for this trip, this day or this hour. With this chica, I've completely ignored the rules and that's without realizing, I've thrown caution to the wind so to speak, and it scares the hell out me!
As a rule, I will not lead on a woman if in my heart I know there can't be anything else, she has spoken to me about wanting to go to N.Y. she has lots of family there including siblings on both sides of her family, but the siblings are not legit; so she hasn't seen them in a very long time. Taking her age into consideration, and the fact that I really like this chica, my friend told me "just get her a fianc?e visa get her over there and see what she's like the first couple of months" and if she stays the same take the plunge, At the very least you can get a couple of good years out of her. I'm considering it.
What do you think, what would you do?<O</O
Well, I'm really conflicted about a situation. It's about a Chica
Over the years I can safely say that when it comes to sankettes, I'm a tiguere. I've been schooled by some of the best threads and articles here on DR1.
But as we all know, there's going to be that "one" that you just can't let go of. To begin, I will explain how I found myself in this situation.
This stems from my first sankette, she was a hot barrio rat with green eyes from Mamayes that nearly bamboozled me into marrying her. Luckily for me when I decided to jump in head first, I did a few google searches, and showed unannounced a couple of times. So it was an easy decision to get rid of her.
Since then, I decided that every time I make to the DR, I'll hook up with random chicas, just have fun hangout, burn a few thousand pesos, say adios and hop back on JetBlue to reality. Well the first few times, everything worked out, I was able to cash in a few favors etc... I met Miss X during one of those trips. But left it at that, I would invite her to dinner usually on my last day before I head out, and we kept it at that. But my last few trips, I could never find anyone available, and always end up killing most of the time with her.
This time, she's 37 but really looks 30, never married, no kids, lives with her parents has a little business peddling cosmetics. She graduated from one of the local Universities; did I mention a body to die for? She has some really good qualities, and is really good with her money, has a bank account and credit in her name. She drives and is like they say in the DR "tranquila"; as far as I know.
My plan is to not go out and do something crazy, It's just that whenever I'm with a chica, I always have the "end" in mind, whether it's just for this trip, this day or this hour. With this chica, I've completely ignored the rules and that's without realizing, I've thrown caution to the wind so to speak, and it scares the hell out me!
As a rule, I will not lead on a woman if in my heart I know there can't be anything else, she has spoken to me about wanting to go to N.Y. she has lots of family there including siblings on both sides of her family, but the siblings are not legit; so she hasn't seen them in a very long time. Taking her age into consideration, and the fact that I really like this chica, my friend told me "just get her a fianc?e visa get her over there and see what she's like the first couple of months" and if she stays the same take the plunge, At the very least you can get a couple of good years out of her. I'm considering it.
What do you think, what would you do?<O
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