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dinosaur100
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i guess I need advise from you if you are a Dominican girl. Heres my history, I am 55 years old, look 45 been married and have many relationships. I live in new York a professional man, no children no wife, a life of many sad stories and very much aware of the scams all around me. In march I went to stay at a resort in puna cana for 1 week. Long story short met a girl who was there vacationing with friends, comes from
santa domingo, age 21. I know what your thinking. Wait. From minute 1 love at first sight, I could not speak Spanish and she could not speak English. Google translator used Every moment together. While there she was showing me off on the phone to her friends saying how happy she was with me and also one time to her mother. Blew my mind, different culture, different rules. Came home, starting to text and talk on internet, tango. Conversations got heavy and deep, I kept it going also. My emotional needs were being met. Soon it began she starting saying I love you want to be with bla bla, so I started the same. Never
asked me for money but one time she told me she wanted to get a job with her sister who lived in caymen islands, didn't have money for paperwork. Maybe she was clever, maybe new I offered, told her I would give 200 us for her birthday 4/5. Anyway also when I talk to her, right in the middle of the conversation she would disappear sometimes for 1 hour sometimes for 6 hours. I think she maybe working in a bar as a stripper dancing who knows what and calls are interreputed because of her work. All she maybe a prostitute and calls when she cans. I don't judge of for any of her behavior I am aware a person needs to do things to survive, especially in that country. SHe has told me next time when I come she wants me to meet her family. Now, the only time this happens is when either the man or women is serious and wants to show the man or women. Now I have not told her yet that under no condition could she ever come to us because I married a Chinese women, divorce and law in us says you must wait 10 years to do it again. Even if I could do this I would not, be there and done, it so worse situation I would have to move to DR. Question is simple. Is she scamming me for money or does she simply want a better life, which I can not blame her for. Would her family who does want to meet me, are they too part of the master scam, maybe for me to marry her
and take care of them. Is the introduction to her family and showing me to her friends and mom while at the resort that
throws me off. BUt I have lived many lives and no when people are face to face to me, I can tell if they are lying. THis is my
profession. SHe seemed, liked me, so happy and sincere, I could see it in her eyes, the eyes don't lie. But I dont know, I only am aware of these girls, not all, who have the unfortunate reputation of scamming foreign men. Please advise.
santa domingo, age 21. I know what your thinking. Wait. From minute 1 love at first sight, I could not speak Spanish and she could not speak English. Google translator used Every moment together. While there she was showing me off on the phone to her friends saying how happy she was with me and also one time to her mother. Blew my mind, different culture, different rules. Came home, starting to text and talk on internet, tango. Conversations got heavy and deep, I kept it going also. My emotional needs were being met. Soon it began she starting saying I love you want to be with bla bla, so I started the same. Never
asked me for money but one time she told me she wanted to get a job with her sister who lived in caymen islands, didn't have money for paperwork. Maybe she was clever, maybe new I offered, told her I would give 200 us for her birthday 4/5. Anyway also when I talk to her, right in the middle of the conversation she would disappear sometimes for 1 hour sometimes for 6 hours. I think she maybe working in a bar as a stripper dancing who knows what and calls are interreputed because of her work. All she maybe a prostitute and calls when she cans. I don't judge of for any of her behavior I am aware a person needs to do things to survive, especially in that country. SHe has told me next time when I come she wants me to meet her family. Now, the only time this happens is when either the man or women is serious and wants to show the man or women. Now I have not told her yet that under no condition could she ever come to us because I married a Chinese women, divorce and law in us says you must wait 10 years to do it again. Even if I could do this I would not, be there and done, it so worse situation I would have to move to DR. Question is simple. Is she scamming me for money or does she simply want a better life, which I can not blame her for. Would her family who does want to meet me, are they too part of the master scam, maybe for me to marry her
and take care of them. Is the introduction to her family and showing me to her friends and mom while at the resort that
throws me off. BUt I have lived many lives and no when people are face to face to me, I can tell if they are lying. THis is my
profession. SHe seemed, liked me, so happy and sincere, I could see it in her eyes, the eyes don't lie. But I dont know, I only am aware of these girls, not all, who have the unfortunate reputation of scamming foreign men. Please advise.
