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DW20
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First off let me say I'm not completely clueless, just want to know if there is any possibility. Let me explain exactly what I'm talking about. I had gone through a messy divorce and like many other men going through that experience decided to try one of the DR sex resorts...and yes you guessed it, met a girl that I thought was nice. Again I'm not completely ignorant, I know they are paid to be nice, but let me continue. I spent most of my time with this young lady...and yes their is a considerable age difference, I'm 51 and she's 31. She has a 7 year old son and lives in her mother's house. She recently graduated from Santiago University with a medical degree and is waiting on the government to assign her a hospital for her internship. I have seen her graduation pictures where she is holding up her degree with several other graduates and the university in the background, also family celebrations, so I know she is telling the truth in that regard, plus she has pictures of her with university staff and they are all wearing medical scrubs. I know she comes from a poor family and considering her line of work, is probably the main source of income. Her family does not know what her job really is and she has not told me how she explains her income to her family. She also has other sisters that are also doctors. Anyway, since I first met her, I have made 4 other trips down to see her, all have been in regular AI resorts and she only asked me for money on the second trip. The last two trips she didn't ask me for anything. She has stated several times that she hopes she starts her internship soon so she can leave the sex tourism business. Now I know many people are saying how can you consider yourself being with someone that was in that type of business, well if I couldn't I would consider myself a hypocrite. I mean I am willing to contribute to the very business that people would put her down for, but would not consider her good enough to be with me outside of it. Like I said, it just sounds hypocritical. I actually admire her for at least using the income to support her son and obtain an education to better her situation. We have started talking about a possible future together and she has mentioned that she would like me to relocate to the DR. Now as for myself, having gone through 2 previous marriages, both of them with college educated successful woman, and both of whom cheated on me, I don't consider any marriage guaranteed. I don't care if your lady to be is a ex-hooker, wall street executive, or the first lady, there are no guarantees. Now like I said, she has asked me to move to the DR, but unfortunately I'm probably still at least 5 to 10 years from retirement. Between the company I work for stripping my pension in favor for 401K's, of which both ex-wives did a real number on leaving me with little, and the ex-wives also trashing my credit, I'm definitely not what you would call well off, rich, or anything even remotely close. I do however, have a pretty good job, mid 90s, good benefit package, and have started to rebuild both my 401K and my credit. It will be quite a while before either my 401k or credit are back to 100% though. I also have the means for her to travel back and forth from the US to the DR as she wishes for free. She knows my financial situation and doesn't seem to mind, so I don't believe she is with me for my money since I don't really have a lot of it. I am considering asking this girl to marry me so I can bring her back to the states; although, I would like to retire to the DR eventually. What concerns me is I realize there is a pretty good probability that the girl will leave me once she gets to the US. I also realize their is some island fever going on here, hence the post to begin with. Now this is my question. Does anyone know of any successful relationships involving my situation. I mean do all the horror stories I have read about on this site mean that the same is automatically going to happen in my case or does she at least get the benefit of the doubt. Does she at least get some credit for going to college to try and better her situation. I would appreciate any feedback, no matter how sarcastic.
